OUR NAME IS CHANGED

We have changed our name from the NEW TRADITION COALITION to DRAW THE LINE LAWRENCE so it better fits our purpose and mission. We call on all community members to come together and DRAW THE LINE on underage drinking and drug use for a healthier and safer place to live.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

FREE STATE vs. LAWRENCE HIGH TAILGATE PARTY


The New Tradition Coalition, in conjunction with the Kansas Elks State Drug Awareness Program will be tailgating at the Free State vs. Lawrence High football game on October 23, 2009. Like the New Tradition Coalition, the Elks are dedicated to preventing the use of alcohol, tobacco, and other illicit drugs by the youth of our country. Look for our trailer at the Free State Football Stadium. Join the many Lawrence families who have signed the SAFE HOME Pledge. More details to come...

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Parent Q & A


INHALANTS


Huffing and inhalant use are common types of abuse in our youth in Lawrence, Kansas. Approximately seventeen million Americans have abused inhalants at least once in their lives. Inhalant use is especially common among young children; by eighth grade one in five children has experimented with huffing at least once. Inhalants are the fourth most commonly abused substances used by children in eighth to twelfth grade, after alcohol, cigarettes and marijuana. Inhalants are easily accessible in all of our homes. Keep this in mind and look for signs. See these web links for more information.
http://teens.drugabuse.gov/mom/pdf/english/inhalants.pdf
http://www.psychiatric-disorders.com/articles/substance-abuse/inhalant-abuse.php
http://www.abovetheinfluence.com/facts/drugs-inhalants.aspx?id=search_properInhalants#

Saturday, September 19, 2009

TALKING TO YOUNG KIDS ABOUT DRUGS AND ALCOHOL


The issue of drugs can be very confusing to young children. If drugs are so dangerous, then why is the family medicine cabinet full of them? And why do TV, movies, music and advertising often make drug and alcohol use look so cool?
We need to help our kids to distinguish fact from fiction. And it's not too soon to begin. National studies show that the average age when a child first tries alcohol is 11; for marijuana, it's 12. And many kids start becoming curious about these substances even sooner. So let's get started!

It is never too early. Talk early, talk often. If you talk to your kids at an early age about drugs and alcohol, you will not be ifluencing them to start taking drugs or drinking. On the contrary, they will be less apt to experiment if they know the facts. The issue of drugs can be very confusing to young children. If drugs are so dangerous, then why is the family medicine cabinet full of them? And why do TV, movies, music and advertising often make drug and alcohol use look so cool?
We need to help our kids to distinguish fact from fiction. And it's not too soon to begin. National studies show that the average age when a child first tries alcohol is 11; for marijuana, it's 12. And many kids start becoming curious about these substances even sooner. So let's get started!

UNDERAGE DRINKING WHAT ARE YOUR VIEWS?


Are there gray areas in your beliefs about underage drinking? What effect does that have on your child's behavior? Is it OK to drink at a wedding but not at the Friday night high school tail gate party? Is it OK to drink at 18 when they are away at school but not at home when they get back for the summer? How do teenagers decipher your messages about alcohol when they decide to drink or not. Are your extended family and close friends on the same page as you? These are questions parents need to discuss and formulate answers to and share with teens as your family values. Mixed messages can sometimes worse than not talking to teens at all. See what Stacy DeWitt, CEO and founder of Connect With Kids has to say in this video.


Sunday, September 6, 2009

FRESHMAN BLUES


If your child is off at their first year of college, you may want to read this. As excited as they were to start their new life, they now may experience new stresses and depression when all the newness wears off. They may be surprised at how much they miss home and how lonely they feel, longing for the comforts of old friends. Let them know that those feelings are natural and that you can help them through it. Stress is the number one reason young people give for drinking and taking drugs. This is a good reason to start the discussion.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

SEX and TECH


The National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy has an excellent resource on Sex and Tech. It also has some great video clips from students. Here is the website: http://www.thenationalcampaign.org/sextech/

Also, there are some PSA’s on sexting at http://www.iloveuguys.org/ From the iloveyouguys.org site, there is a link to ANOTHER great resource for youth- http://safe2tell.org/. “It is designed to help YOU anonymously report any threatening behavior that endangers you, your friends, your family, or your community.”

Really cool resources for parents and teens.

Monday, August 31, 2009

PARENT RESOURCE


Drug Free America Foundation has a new Parent Resource which is now on their National Drug-Free Workplace Alliance Web site. It is a great tool to share at home. This link will take you directly to the publication:

Saturday, August 15, 2009

TALKING ABOUT POT


What is marijuana? What will happen if I smoke it? How does it effect my brain? Our kids want to know and what better source of information than parents. Here is a great brochure and conversation starter for your teen or preteen about marijuana. The more information our Lawrence youth have about drugs the better decisions they can make. MARIJUANA IS THE SECOND MOST ABUSED DRUG IN LAWRENCE after alcohol. Click on the link below and share it with your teen.

Thursday, August 6, 2009

FAMILY CONTRACT FOR A HEALTHY FUTURE


Here is a great way to share family values and put parents and teens on the same page before school starts. Share this family alcohol contract with your child's friend's families as well. It will help your child fight peer pressure when they know their friends have signed the family contract too.

TEXTING INTO THE NIGHT


School is getting ready to start up and it may be time to visit or revisit some house rules with our teens about cell phone use and texting. You can check the texting activity records with your cell phone provider to see what may be going on while you are asleep! Lack of sleep is a big problem with teenagers as their internal clock is geared to sleeping late and staying up late. You may want to start a week before school begins with regular bed times and early rising to get your child ready. Some teens resort to energy drinks or amphetamines (easily obtained) to keep going throughout the day. Add that to the hormone activity, stress, peer pressure and homework, sleep deprivation can snowball into something serious.

Our Comment of the Week comes from Ken on a post about teens texting way into the night and losing sleep.


He said: "Bekah...for someone who's getting good grades and getting enough sleep your grammar and spelling are very poor. Turn off the phone at night. And thank you for making a perfect example for everyone on this subject."


He is referring to Bekah's comment on the same post:"i am 17 yrs old. i have grad high school, i work, i live on my own and i txt 24-7. i sometimes will stay up till like 4 in the morning txting.. i dont think there is anything wrong with teens that can still have good grade and work and text 24-7... i dont have a prob with gettin up every morning at 6am.... you just got to know your sleeping habits.. know wen to go to bed and wen to stay up... your body will get immuned to it if you do it long enough"

Monday, July 27, 2009

HOW MUCH IS TOO MUCH?



Visitors to this free health-screening website receive personalized feedback, finding out if their alcohol consumption is likely to be within safe limits -- or if it may be harmful to their health now, or in the future. They also find out whether they drink more or less than other people of their age and gender.


AlcoholScreening.org was developed by Join Together, a project of the Boston University School of Public Health. Based on the AUDIT (Alcohol Use Disorders Identification Test), a standard in screening instruments, this simple, anonymous test takes only a few minutes and provides confidential results. AlcoholScreening.org was launched in April 2001, and the website delivered its millionth health screening on April 7, 2009.


http://www.alcoholscreening.org/

Thursday, July 23, 2009

TEENS HOME ALONE

Parenting tips for parents with teens who are too old for day care and spend time home alone when parents are working or out of town. If your home has no parent supervision during certain parts of the dayand other teens know it, they may put undue pressure on your teen. The most dangerous times for teens is between 3pm and 7pm. We can set up our teens for disaster or, prepare them for safe, stress free times at home. Talk about internet use, entertaining the opposite sex, defending themselves against intruders, and how to answer the phone. Set parameters on who has permission to come over. Give your teen a schedule of things to do, work and fun to stave off boredom and loneliness.
http://parentingteens.about.com/od/familylife/a/teenshomealone.htm

Friday, June 26, 2009

SAFE SUMMER FOR TEENS

Teens More Likely to Start Using Drugs in Summer

Statistics show that youthful experimentation with drugs, tobacco, and alcohol is most likely to occur during unsupervised times and during summer vacation.
Visit this web site for good parenting tips: http://view.exacttarget.com/?j=fe6916707760037f7616&m=fefe1575716403&ls=fdf8127576640d7c7117707d&l=fec21677746d037e&s=fdf415757d64067570117777&jb=ffcf14&ju=fe241673716c057f7d1378

Obama, Congress Act to Protect Kids, Save Lives


Smoking kills more people than alcohol, AIDS, car crashes, illegal drugs, murders, and suicides combined -- and thousands more die from other tobacco-related causes -- such as fires caused by smoking (more than 1,000 deaths/year nationwide) and smokeless tobacco use. The federal government just passed a law that keeps tobacco companies from targeting kids. The link below outlines the new law.

TALKING ABOUT DRUGS AND ALCOHOL WITH YOUR CHILDREN.

It can be a hard task to talk to your children about drugs and alcohol. Watch this video and you'll hear some very familiar words from other parents. Learn more about the teenage brain. Sign up for the Partnership for a Drug-Free America. This site has lots of tools we parents can use when talking to our teens.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Lawrence Adopts Social Hosting Law



The state of Kansas passed a new social hosting law that goes into effect on July 1st. It's purpose is to crack down on underage drinking at house parties by holding the "host" responsible. The Lawrence city commission made an unprecedented, unanimous vote last night to pass a Lawrence-specific ordinance that goes beyond the Kansas ordinance and will likely improve its enforceability here. Thanks to the District Attorney, KUPD, LPD, City Prosecutor and Jen Brinkerhoff at DCCCA for working on this ordinance. Thank you to The New Tradition Coalition and the Lawrence City Commissioners for its support. You can read the Lawrence Journal World article below for more.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Sleep Deprivation in Teens


If teens don't get enough sleep, it could set them up for many health problems. A recent National Institutes of Health study shows teens who do not get enough sleep have a much higher chance of being depressed or suicidal. Some teens turn to drugs to compensate for lack of sleep- from Red Bull, Monster, and other caffeine drinks, to No Doze, psychostimulants (ADD medications) or amphetamines. Many teens go to sleep with their cell phones on and texting could go on all night. Others spend hours on facebook until the wee hours. Parents can help our teens by monitoring the use of electronics and TV when it comes to getting a good night's sleep. Check out the link for this "USA Today" and "NY Times" articles and below.

Friday, June 5, 2009

ADOLESCENT BRAIN AND BEHAVIOR – Why do teens act this way?


The part of the brain which controls reasoning and impulses – known as the Prefrontal Cortex – is near the front of the brain and does not fully mature until the age of 25.

Unfortunately, developing brains may be more prone to damage. This means that experimentation with drugs and alcohol can have lasting, harmful effects on your teen’s health.

Want to know more? Visit http://www.drugfree.org/teenbrain/science/behavior.html
This site is full of helpful information to discuss and share with your teen.

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

LAWRENCE JOURNAL WORLD MAY 6, 2009


Take a look at this article and spot on Channel 6 about The New Tradition Coalition. We invite anyone interested to visit our meetings on the 1st Wednesday of each month, DCCCA Clinton Pkwy & Kasold and see the work we are doing. Brown Bag Lunch at 1130AM. Hope to see you there.
COALITION OF PARENTS WORKING TO ADDRESS UNDERAGE DRINKING
By Jesse Fray
Lawrence must take a stand against underage drinking: that was the message from one local group. As Kansas University works to curb underage drinking, there’s a group of concerned parents and community members involved in the same fight.
The New Tradition Coalition, formerly the Lawrence Parent Network, has been working for about five years to address the issue, by involving parents to prevent underage drinking tragedies.

COMMUNITY HEALTH FORUM and FAIR


The 1st Community Health Forum and Fair was held at the 9th Street Baptist Outreach Center on May 30, 2009. It was organized by the members of the Health and Wellness Ministry including Dr. J. Kenoly, First Lady Carmen White and, Chrystal Lumpkins, PhD. Discussions included Substance Abuse and Prevention, Mental Health, Nutrition, Weight Loss and Exercise, Smoking Cession, Diabetes Support and Health Maintenance. There were screenings for Blood Pressure and Blood Sugar. And, everyone got a pedometer to promote walking 10,000 steps a day.


Health and Wellness Ministry members strive to promote programs focused on providing health education, wellness and health risk reduction to empower members to become more active in caring for their physical, mental, and emotional health in addition to their spiritual health. On May 30th, they did just that. Congratulations for a wonderful program!

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Marijuana #2 Drug Choice Among Teens in Douglas County


There are many signs of marijuana use to be aware of. We have listed numerous below to help in determining if someone you care for may be using marijuana.
Signs of Marijuana addiction: Paraphernalia, eye drops, air freshener, Dilated (large) pupils Cigarette rolling papers Seeds that have been cleaned from marijuana Smell on clothing, in room, or in car Bloodshot eyes Sleepy appearance Reduced motivation Pipes, bongs, homemade smoking devices (you may see sticky residue from burned marijuana)Anxiety Difficulty thinking Distorted sensory perceptions Dry mouth Euphoria (temporary feelings of elation, energy and limitless power) Feeling sluggish Grandiosity (acting in a pompous or boastful manner) Impaired judgment Impaired short-term memory Inappropriate laughter Increased heart rate Increased appetite, craving sweets Reduced coordination Temporary feelings of reduced anxiety or stress Sadness/depressed mood Sensation that time is passing slowly Social withdrawal and isolation Discolored fingers Sleepiness
Marijuana is usually smoked using cigarette rolling papers, a purchased water bong, or a makeshift bong that can be made from a variety of items. Hash can be smoked or eaten, and is sometimes cooked into baked goods. Generally it can be difficult to recognize the signs of marijuana addiction if you don't see the individual after smoking when they are still experiencing the effects of the drug.
Slang terms for marijuana: Weed, ganga, bud, IZM, jive stick, Kentucky blue, Ju-Ju (marijuana cigarette), kiff, kilter, Lakbay diva, laughing grass, light stuff, binky (cigarette), macon, magic smoke, blanket (cigarette), Mary and Johnny, Mary Jane, Mary Jonas, Mary Warner, Mary Weaver, meg, meggie, mow the grass (to smoke), moving the lawn (smoking marijuana), bowl, broccoli, budda, oboy, OJ, butter flower, pine, cannabis, Queen Ann's lace, root, rope, sasfras, sen, shrimp, siddi, crying weed, spliffy (cigarette), splim, dinkie dow, duros, tin (pipe made out of tinfoil, container), toke (to smoke), wheat, gage, gash, wooz, yeh, yellow submarine, zol, Greta, griff, grogged (extremely stoned), gungun, herb

Sunday, May 31, 2009


Teen Thinking Web Site Unveiled
The fourteen Kansas communities funded through the Strategic Prevention Framework State Incentive Grants to Reduce Underage Drinking in partnership with the Kansas Department of Social and Rehabilitation Services and the Kansas Department of Transportation launched the Teen Thinking Campaign earlier this month. The campaign message, “Teach them to think, not Drink” can be heard in both TV and public service announcements. The message is also being distributed through billboards, bookmarks, posters, signs, and stuffers (for utility bills, grade cards, etc.) The campaign encourages the public to visit the Teen Thinking website which provides resources for Kansas parents and communities regarding the prevention of underage drinking. To learn more, go to http://www.teenthinking.org/.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

KANSAS COMMUNITIES THAT CARE SURVEY 2009


The following report contains the current levels in Douglas County of adolescent substance use, delinquency, violence, as well as, risk and protective levels as reported by adolescents through the Kansas Communities That Care school survey. This assessment is undertaken annually by the Kansas Department of Social and Rehabilitation Services/Addiction and Prevention Services and is used by state agencies, counties, schools and communities in Kansas to monitor the incidence and prevalence of adolescent problem behaviors and the environmental factors that put children at risk or protect them from developing those behaviors. If you would like to see the results of this test, click on the link below. View county, pick a domain and click on the question. You will then see the answer.

Here's an example of what you will see:
If you wanted to get some beer, wine or hard liquor for example, vodka, whiskey, or gin, how easy would it be for you to get some?
Population: 12 grade
Percent Responding: Very Easy 47%

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

HELP! IT'S SUMMER!


Summer is upon us. Our college age children are moving back home. They are used to staying up all night, going to parties and calling their own shots. Our younger kids are out of school. Parents at work and teens at home is precarious at best. We worry about them having time on their hands and temptations to drink, do drugs and engage in the risky behaviors that follow. What are parents going to do to help our Lawrence youth stay busy, healthy and drug and alcohol free? Please leave your helpful comments below.

10 Things Parents Can Do to Keep Their Kids off Drugs and Alcohol


When it comes to teen drug use, an ounce of prevention is worth so much more than a pound of cure. Share these tips with your child and set up a home that is drug and alcohol free for them and their friends.
1. Be there for your teen when he needs to get out of a bad situation. Be the scapegoat: ‘I can’t do that, my parents would kill me!’ Or be the parent who will pick up your teen without repercussions if he finds the party he’s gone to has drugs or alcohol. Set consequences BEFORE your child has to make a choice to use or not.

2. Get to know your teen’s friends and their parents on a first name basis. JOIN THE LAWRENCE PARENT DIRECTORY (see the link on the right). This will help you know what your teen is doing and you may make a good friend to boot! Get those parents together for a discussion on expectations and communication strategies. Our kids are well connected- so too should we.

3. Keep connected in the after school hours. If you can’t be home with your teen, call and leave notes. Have another adult supervise your teen or sign him up for an after school program. If these things aren’t possible, establish a routine for your teenager and keep him busy during this time. Make a plan now for summer activities.

4. Talk to your teen early and often about drugs and alcohol. Use ice breakers from this web site, television shows or the radio in the car. Remember these are conversations, not lectures.

5. Get your teen involved in extra-curricular activities. Schools offer sports or clubs and community organizations offer classes and youth groups. These will help him mold his identity in a positive way and give him less time doing nothing and becoming bored. Studies have shown teens that have less time to just hang out are less likely to do drugs.

6. Ask questions when your teen makes plans to go out. Who will he be with, where is he going, what will he be doing, etc. Then check up on him. Call other parents and do this together. Set a curfew.

7. Be a role model. If you drink, drink responsibly - and don’t ever use illegal drugs. Lock your liquor and medicine cabinets. Keep the temptation away.

8. Unite your family against drugs using strong family beliefs. Establish that your family doesn’t use drugs. Not that you will shun your child should he make a mistake, but that your family believes there are other healthier ways to enjoy life and fix problems rather than escaping into a drug haze. Keep your message consistent, no drugs, no special occasions for underage drinking.

9. Connect with your teen by doing things together as a family. Make this a routine outing and have your teen help plan it. Eat family meals together. Studies have shown that kids who enjoy dinner together with their parents on a normal basis are less likely to become involved with drugs.

10. Drop any baggage you may be carrying. Don’t allow the mistakes you made as a teenager or young adult to influence your teen in a negative way. Tap into the mature adult you’ve become and let the past go. We don't want them saying, "I'm just glad I lived through my teen years!"

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Important changes to KU alcohol policies



Marlesa Roney
Vice Provost for Student Success

NEWS RELEASE
May 5, 2009Contact: Jack Martin, University Communications, (785) 864-7100.
KU acts to curb student alcohol abuse
LAWRENCE — The University of Kansas will implement a parental notification program for alcohol and drug violations by students under 21 years of age, as well as several other initiatives aimed at educating students about the dangers of abusing alcohol and drugs. Among the changes will be a medical amnesty policy to encourage students to seek help for friends who are having alcohol-related emergencies.
The changes, designed to discourage underage and irresponsible drinking, are effective immediately, accelerated by two student deaths this spring in alcohol-related tragedies. Additional steps are under consideration for implementation before fall classes start.
“Even after students come to college, parents play a major role in their lives,” said Marlesa Roney, vice provost for Student Success. “Studies indicate that parents continue to have more influence than anyone else over the behavior of their sons and daughters. By providing this notification, parents can be a key part of the process to encourage students to make responsible choices.”
Parents and/or legal guardians will be notified after the first known violation of university policy or state law regarding drugs, after the first violation involving alcohol that endangered the health or welfare of the student and/or another person, or after the second known violation of the university alcohol policy.
Notification will also be given following a drug or alcohol violation that results in the cancellation of a student’s housing contract, or if the student has been referred for a second-level alcohol assessment.
“It is my hope that students will not see this as punitive,” said Roney. “This is about using every tool available to help students take responsibility for their actions and to ensure their safety and well being. The University of Kansas wants to help students live up to those responsibilities by making sure their parents are involved in the discussion when students are having difficulties.”
KU also is implementing mandatory alcohol assessments for incoming students, effective with the fall 2009 semester.
“Some students come to college with pre-existing alcohol issues,” said Roney. “If we can identify those students and get them help at the start of their college careers, that may head off more serious problems down the road.”
Each student will be required to take an online assessment within six weeks of attending his or her first class at KU. Students whose responses indicate a high risk factor will be contacted by Student Health Services with resources and be required to participate in a follow-up program.
Another change is that KU will provide amnesty from alcohol-related university and student housing polices to students who seek immediate medical assistance for persons experiencing alcohol-related emergencies.
“We have heard from some students who are reluctant to get help for a friend who has had too much to drink because that student has been drinking, too, and they are afraid of being punished,” said Roney. “While that should never stop someone from getting help for a friend in trouble, removing the threat of being documented for a policy violation will eliminate this obstacle.”
These actions are the first round of a series of steps KU plans to take, with additional actions expected to be considered and announced in the coming weeks and months.
Additionally, because the problem of underage alcohol abuse is a societal one, a Community Alcohol Coalition has been formed to provide a community-wide response.
The coalition met April 28 and will continue to meet on a regular basis to develop and implement strategies to address alcohol issues in our community. Task force members include representatives from KU, local government and schools, law enforcement agencies, health care providers and establishments that serve alcohol.
Community Coalition Members:Marlesa A. Roney, chair, vice provost for Student Success, KUJeff Weinberg, assistant to the chancellor, KUJack Martin, deputy director, University Communications, KUDiana Robertson, director, Department of Student Housing, KUCarol Seager, director, Student Health Services, KURueben Perez, director, Student Involvement and Leadership Center, KULew Perkins, director, Kansas Athletics Inc.Malcolm Gibson, general manager, University Daily KansanRalph Oliver, chief, Public Safety Office, KUMason Heilman, student body president, KUGene Meyer, president, Lawrence Memorial HospitalDenise Darby-Haynes, director of prevention, Douglas County Citizens Committee on AlcoholismRon Olin, chief, Lawrence Police DepartmentRandy Weseman, superintendent, Lawrence Public SchoolsDave Corliss, city manager, LawrenceRob Chestnut, mayor, City of LawrenceSarah Jane Russell, director, GaDuGi SafeCenter, LawrencePhil Bradley, Kansas Licensed Beverage AssociationGavin Smith, Lawrence Bar Owner’s Association
KU offers a variety of programs encouraging safe and responsible use of alcohol, including SafeRide and SafeBus and numerous alcohol-free social events sponsored by Student Union Activities and other KU units, such as New Student Orientation activities during Hawk Week. New Student Orientation also features a session for students and parents titled Making Smart Choices, and Peer Health Educators are available through the Wellness Resource Center.

The University of Kansas is a major comprehensive research and teaching university. University Relations is the central public relations office for KU's Lawrence campus.
kunews@ku.edu (785) 864-3256 1314 Jayhawk Blvd., Lawrence, KS 66045

Monday, May 4, 2009


Denise Witmer is a contribtor to this web site below. She is a professional who works with teens and a parent. It has all kinds of information for parents. It has quizzes, advice, suggestions and many other tools to get to know ourselves as parents and our teens. Check it out.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009


Dalton Hawkins was 18 years old. He lived in Lawrence, was a KU student and died last week. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Hawkins family. The New Tradition Coalition urges this community to talk to, discuss with and lead our young adults so that we may get rid of underage drinking and its related tradegies in Lawrence. Yes, Lawrence, we should and we can. We don't want to lose another Dalton or Jason or Casey.

Monday, April 27, 2009

NEW TRADITION MEMBER ELIZABETH SCHEIB



Hi! My name is Elizabeth Scheib. I have two teenaged sons, one in college and one in high school. I am troubled by the risky use of alcohol by our teens. I made plenty of bad choices as a teen, but it seems that the drinking contests and mass consumption that is acceptable and even celebrated by today’s youth is much more dangerous than in previous generations. The consequences of drinking have touched my life personally, giving me a passion to help educate and support others. While our teens are bent on making their own decisions, we can play an important role by providing them with plenty of relevant, fact-based information to encourage them to make the choice not to drink illegally. That is why I want to be a part of the New Tradition Coalition. I want to help other parents learn as much as they can about the effects of drinking, the law, and what is going on in Lawrence so they can become part of a new tradition to reduce underage drinking.

I am also on staff at a local church and I’m encouraged by God’s word. God loves us no matter where we have been and what we have done. And He loves our teens too much to let them go down a path of destruction. He just wants us to turn to Him. Our kids want to be loved and valued and sometimes I feel we spend more time tearing them down instead of building them up. Author, Jim Burns, has a great website that I frequent (http://www.homeword.com/) According to the website, “HomeWord is a Christian organization designed to provide assistance to adults worldwide as they help young people make wise decisions and lead positive, vibrant, Christian lifestyles.” I think that is what God wants us to do as parents, to come alongside them and help them steer through a scary, potentially risky period in their lives. HomeWord has weekly articles, radio broadcasts, Q&A, and other resources to help parents navigate the teenage years. I pray you will be encouraged by what you find on the HomeWord site and empowered by the information on the New Tradition Coalition site.

WHAT DRUGS ARE IN THE TEEN WORLD TODAY?


Times are changing and so are the opportunities to get high these days. Do you wonder what's out there? Are kids really selling their ADD prescriptions at school? Is pot that much stronger than it used to be? Is it grown in basements and homes here in Lawrence? Is my own medicine cabinet a target for teen drug abuse? Do kids get high off of over the counter cough medicine? What kinds of things do kids use to inhale to get high? What are 'skittles'? The number one deterrent for kids doing drugs is parent influence and we need to know the facts. Our children are 50% LESS likely to use if we talk with them, educate and monitor their behavior. How do we start the discussion without knowing the subject? The link below is a table will help you better understand the effects of drugs, what they look like, and how they are used. Share this with your child. It won't teach them to do drugs, it will teach them what drugs can do to them. It will help them be aware and knowledgeable about what's out there - in their world.

Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Shelby's Rule: Alcohol + Vomiting = 911


The 'ER' final episode aired on April 2nd including the alcohol poisoning story in memory of Shelby Allen. The Shelby Lyn Allen Alcohol Poisoning Education Fund was established after Aebbie Allen's 17 year-old daughter, an 11th grade student at Foothill High School in Palo Cedro, California died of acute alcohol poisoning. Below is a link to their very informative, powerful and emotional web site that would be great to share with the teens in your life. On this site, there is a unique tip for teens. Make a group text on your cell phone with 5 of your trusted friends and at least one adult. Use this 911 text group to dial for help if you find yourself in trouble. They will be there to spring into action and get the help you need.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

SAFE HOMES



Will your kid find booze, pills, drugs or parents at their friend's house? Look it up! The New Tradition Coalition is giving you an opportunity to join other parents in a pledge to be vigilant and cooperative when it comes to underage drinking and drug use. Sign the SAFE HOMES PLEDGE on the right and we will publish your name in the SAFE HOMES DIRECTORY on this site. Next time your child wants to go to a friend's house who you do not know, look it up! This will give you a chance to call those parents ahead of time to see if they will be at home and if they are expecting your child to come over. It is also a great chance to say, "Thanks for providing a safe home for our children." Support Alcohol Free Environments" -S.A.F.E. Sign up today.

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Parents Worry That 'Alcopops' Encourage Teen Drinking




What are Alcopops? They are alcoholic beverages packaged and flavored to resemble soda pop. They are a drink of choice for young girls. They have an alcohol content of 5 to 8 percent, a little more than most beers. Here's an article from "Forbes" magazine that may shed a little light on this popular trend in teen drinking and what parents have to say in their national survey.

'E.R.' Producer Bases Series Finale on Family Tragedy


Did you see the season finale of 'E.R.' last week? Binge drinking and drinking games were a theme in that episode. Why? In real life, the 17 year old neice of executive producer, John Wells, died of alcohol poisoning. Another good conversation starter for the teens in your life. Talk early, talk often. Read the full article at the link below. http://www.jointogether.org/news/headlines/inthenews/2009/er-producer-bases-series.html

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

COMMUNITY FORUM EXAMINES STUDENT ALCOHOL USE April 9th 7pm KU Hawk's Nest


Alcohol related fatalities and binge drinking will be the focus during a discussion sponsored by the Drug Policy Forum of Kansas Thursday at 7pm . All Lawrence Community Members are encouraged to attend. It is at the Kansas Union Hawk's Nest. Use your presence and your voice to show your concern. It is not just a KU problem. It is a community problem and it is our chance to show we are looking for a "New Tradition" in Lawrence. For more information about the panelists and the presentation, see the Journal World article link below.

Monday, April 6, 2009

ASK DIANE ASH, Prevention Specialist, Lawrence High


Dear Diane,

What can teens do BESIDES drink on the weekends in Lawrence? My son tells me
that drinking is the only thing to do and everyone else is doing it!
Click on this link to see Diane's answer. http://www.dccca.org/documents/YADAActivities.pdf

UNDERAGE DRINKING STUNS KC PARENTS

The parent pledge and directory is a helpful tool to let other Lawrence parents know that you do not tolerate underage drinking in your home. The directory is a list of parents who have agreed to provide a safe home for teens. It's an easy way to know where your kids are going- Just look it up! When your child goes over to a new friend's home, call the parents and ask a few questions. "Hey, thanks for having my child over tonight! (This question also verifys that the parent even knows they are having guests.) Since we don't know each other, I just wanted to see how things work over there. Are you going to be home? Do you allow underage drinking in your home? Does anyone have access to guns in your home? Do you check on the kids when they are camped out in the basement rec. room or outside? Do you ask them to say hello and goodbye so you know who's there? Please remind my kid to call me from your home phone when he gets there. Oh, by the way, here's my cell in case you need anything.

Below is a link to a story about some parents who probably didn't check things out. When adults provide and condone underage drinking in their home, the message to teens is - "It must be OK." Is it OK for your teen? Sign the pledge on the right, send it in and let's all get on the same page. If our kids are are so well networked (They can get a party going in 15 minutes.), why shouldn't we be well connected too.

MARIJUANA USE WORSENS DEPRESSION

From the Office of National Drug Control Policy. Executive Office of the President.
Some teens feel the need to "self-medicate" to help them cope with difficulties in their lives, boredom or depression. Marajuana is easily accessable in Lawrence and is the drug of choice after alcohol. The temporary high turns to long term lows. Share this with the teens in your life.
http://www.theantidrug.com/pdfs/teen-marijuana-depression-report.pdf

Thursday, April 2, 2009

100 Text and IM Shortcuts So You Can Communicate With Your Kids


Hey Parents! It's time to jump on board. We may look over our kid's shoulders while they are IMing (instant messaging) and see a very strange language; POS (parent over shoulder).
We may check out the text messaging history on their phones and see things like LMAF, SYL, WE, 411, BZ and the like when all we know is ASAP! Print off this handy guide and decipher the code. Be aware, that when parents use these abbreaviations it is so uncool. However, it is a really good idea to set yourself up to text, IM, facebook and get "online" with the technology. Why should you be left out of the loop? If you've ever asked yourself, "Should I have my kid's passwords to their accounts?", the answer is a resounding YES! The hard part is to know how many accounts they have. They're all free so, there are definitely decoys out there for parents. Also, the terms of social networking sites (Facebook, My Space...) state that you need to be at least 13 years old to open one. Use this tool if your 12 year old just has to have one. Before your teen gets their own phone or facebook, set out the ground rules ahead of time. Talk about bullying, sexting, preditors, and giving out personal information and giving up their phone or computer if they can't handle it. Then, have fun with it. Social networking is a great way to communicate if it is done smartly.
http://shortcutsleuth.com/family/communication/100-text-and-im-shortcuts-so-you-can-communicate-with-your-kids/