DRAW THE LINE | LAWRENCE

NEW COALITION NAME as of JANUARY 2012

2012-01-11T11:11:00.000-06:00

The New Tradition Coalition is changing its name to New Coalition Name as of January 2012 to:

Draw the Line Lawrence

We will be changing our web and blog sites to reflect the name change soon. Stay tuned.

Meeting Minutes

December 14, 2011

 Welcome and Introductions/agency updates

Peggy Nelson, Diane Ash, Rob Neff, Steve Lewis, Elizabeth Schieb, Phil Bradley, Janelle Martin, Nancy Renfro, and Kelli Flanner were in attendance.

 DFC Grant Update- Youth Coalition Reports

MADD Power of Parents had low attendance. There was some discussion of how to reach out to parents with PoP. Ideas included: getting on the agenda for PTA meetings, brown bag lunches at large employers, connecting with athletic directors/coaches, connecting with parents of music group participants.

Youth Coalition activities have been wide ranging in October and November, including many presentations for Red Ribbon week and Students Talking about Tobacco, a successful talent show that engaged over 400 youth and raised money for prevention scholarships, and Great American Smokeout celebrations.

 Fake ID 101 Enforcement update

Bar owners will attend the next FAKE ID 101 meeting. Issues that will be discussed include whether to reapply for funds (this is the conclusion of the third funding cycle), sources of IDs that youth are using, and where to go next with this project.

 Media/Marketing Update

The first website draft from Kern was presented to the coalition and discussed. We are awaiting a second draft concept and will select one to move forward with. Some website content will need to be provided by coalition members and will be edited for space by the marketing committee. We anticipate this happening in the next couple of months.

 Report on the Prescription Drug Take-Back Event-Oct. 29th

There will be another Prescription Drug Take-Back on April 21st. A permanent solution to the problem of what to do with old prescriptions is in the works, but awaiting DEA recommendations for how to proceed.

 Parent Surveys

Results of the spring/fall parent surveys were shared with the coalition. All the results show awareness of Those Who Host Lose the Most and other campaigns increasing and acceptability of social hosting decreasing. Numbers of surveys in the fall were more than twice the spring

responses, which is expected as many more parents attend parent/teacher conferences in the fall than spring.

 Elections

We need to elect new officers for the coalition. Paid staff is not eligible. There was discussion of a need to bring new people to the table, and Diane Ash and Peggy Nelson agreed to send letters to the parents of their Youth Coalition members inviting them to the January meeting. We hope to get new people to the table in January and hold elections for Chair, Vice Chair, and Secretary in February.

**Next Meeting- January 4th **

PARENT TIPS ON SOCIAL HOSTING IN LAWRENCE

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Don’t invite Trouble

into your House ...

Most parents worry whether their teenager is safe at parties. Some parents mistakenly think it’s safer

to allow teens to hold underage drinking parties in their homes. This is called “social hosting” and in Kansas, it’s illegal. If charged and convicted, it’s a

Class A misdemeanor and a $1000 fine. You may be held liable even if you are not home.

Teens can still have fun and be legal.

Take these steps if the party is at your house:

Help your teen plan the party.
Invite only a certain number of people.

Pass out personalized invitations and don’t invite people via e-mail to avoid “open” parties.

Put your phone number on the invitation and welcome calls from parents.

Make and enforce a rule against any use of alcohol, drugs and tobacco.

Call parents if a teen arrives with alcohol or is under the influence.

Designate a start and end time for the party.

Secure all forms of alcohol, firearms and other dangerous items in your home.

Let neighbors know that a parent supervised party has been planned.

When you are out-of-town ...

Set a “no party” rule for your house while you are gone.
Have a responsible adult stay at your house or ask a neighbor to keep watch.
Ask the police to drive by your house.
Tell your teen you asked the police to do this.

If your teen attends a party...

Remind teens that their actions have real consequences.

Know where the party is being held and verify with an adult who will be supervising.

Make sure alcohol will not be served.

Find out how your teen is getting to and from the party.

Remind teens to never ride with anyone who’s been drinking or doing drugs.

Tell teens to check in with you first from a land line telephone if they plan to leave the party and go somewhere else.

Assure your teen that they can phone you anytime to be picked up.

Set and enforce a curfew.

A program of

Kansas Family Partnership

5942 SW 29th Street, Topeka, KS 66614

785-266-6161 or 1-800-206-7231

For more information, visit

www.KansasFamily.org.

TEENS, PARENTS & DRIVING

2012-01-11T10:26:00.000-06:00

The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration just released a report that may influence the way some parents drive. Read more at the link below.

SAMHSA News Release

Date: 12/6/2011 12:05 AM
Media Contact: SAMHSA Press Office
Telephone: 240-276-2130

New report shows that adolescents are far more likely to drive under the influence of alcohol or drugs if they live with a parent that drives under the influence

http://www.samhsa.gov/newsroom/advisories/1112050724.aspx

TEEN DEPRESSION

2011-12-14T16:57:00.000-06:00

Many teens who are depressed turn to drugs or alcohol to self medicate and relieve the symptoms. We as adults need to be aware of the symptoms of depression and know when to get help. Bert Nash, the Lawrence Community Mental Health Center is a great resource.

How to Tell if Your Teen is Depressed

Depression can affect people of any age, race, ethnic or economic group. There are two kinds of depressive illness: the sad kind, called major depression, and manic-depression or bipolar disorder, when feeling down and depressed alternates with being hyped-up and sometimes reckless.
You need to have your teen evaluated by a professional if they have several of the following symptoms for more than 2 weeks or if any of these symptoms cause such a big change that your teen can't keep up their usual routine:

Feels sad or cries a lot and it doesn't go away.

Life seems meaningless or like nothing good is ever going to happen again. They have a negative attitude a lot of the time, or it seems like they have no feelings.
It's hard to make up their mind. They forget lots of things, and it's hard to concentrate.
Get irritated often. Little things make them lose their temper and/or over-react.
Sleep pattern changes; start sleeping a lot more or have trouble falling asleep at night. Wake up really early most mornings and can't get back to sleep.
Eating pattern changes; lost appetite or eat a lot more.
Feel restless and tired most of the time.
Think about death, or feel like they're dying, or have thoughts about committing suicide.

Manic Symptoms:

Feel high as a kite...like they're "on top of the world."

Thoughts go racing through their head and jump from one subject to another and talk a lot.
They are a non-stop party, constantly running around.
Do too many wild or risky things: with driving, with spending money, with sex, etc.
So "up" that they don't need much sleep.
Rebellious or irritable and can't get along

Approximately 4 percent of adolescents get seriously depressed each year. Clinical depression is a serious illness that can affect anybody, including teenagers. It can affect thoughts, feelings, behavior, and overall health. Teens with depression can be helped with treatment.

FAKE ID 101 INITIATIVE

2011-12-14T16:43:00.001-06:00

Open this University Daily Kansan newspaper article to find out how the FAKE ID 101 initiative worked in Lawrence this past semester. Congratulations to our law enforcement community for targeting minors using fake ID's.
http://www.kansan.com/news/2011/dec/06/lawrence-bars-patrolled-underage-drinking/?news

FREE STATE HIGH YOUTH COALITION

2011-12-03T11:56:00.000-06:00

Dear Blog Readers,

I just thought I’d share with you an example of the positive things the New Tradition's youth coalition is doing. Free State Youth Coalition created and donated a Christmas tree that was in the Festival of Trees. Their theme was: "Stay on Track --- Say NO to Drugs". What a great job and a great message!

ALCOHOL AND THE TEENAGE BRAIN

2011-11-23T11:18:00.000-06:00

Here is a quick story from NPR on what the researchers have to say about alcohol use and the teenage brain.
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=122765890

SURVIVING THE HOLIDAYS WITH A TROUBLED TEEN

2011-11-23T10:21:00.000-06:00

The holiday season is often portrayed as a time for happy families to come together but if your family includes a troubled teen the holiday season may be anything but happy.
Here are a few guidelines that may help everyone.

http://parentingteens.about.com/od/parentingtroubledteens/a/Holidays-With-Troubled-Teens.htm?nl=1

RED RIBBON WEEK

2011-11-15T11:25:00.000-06:00

The Traffic Safety Resource Office announces two competitions. Pass it on and win!

Seeking Red Ribbon Week Awards Nominations: Did you or your community or school organize any kind of celebration of Red Ribbon Week? If so, you may have the opportunity to win an award to recognize your achievements! Hurry - the deadline to submit is Friday, November 18, 2011.

To download the nomination form, go here.

Act Out Loud 2012 is Here! From October 14, 2011 - January 13, 2012, teams are invited to enter the contest to participate in three different activities that focus on stronger teen driver safety laws. Teams that complete all three activities will be eligible for the $10,000 grand prize.

For all contest details, go here.

LAWRENCE HIGH STUDENTS FOR PREVENTION

2011-10-08T12:19:00.000-05:00

We have an amazing group of students from Lawrence High. The New Tradition Youth Coalition called the FYI Club is dedicated to working within their peer group to encourage drug and alcohol free lifestyles. Please support these students by grabbing the family and attending the Lawrence High Talent Show on November 2nd.

The 7th Annual LHS FYI Talent show will be in the Lawrence High auditorium on Wednesday, Nov 2, 2011 at 7:00pm!

FYI Youth Coalition sponsors a Talent Show to provide an opportunity for students to participate in a performance event, even if they do not participate in choir, orchestra or band. The proceeds from this show will benefit students in 2 ways: first, half of the proceeds will help LHS students with financial needs throughout the rest of this year, and second, half of the proceeds will provide a scholarship for students who have worked in prevention. Tickets may be purchased at the door before the event: adults-$4, students K-12-$3 and children ages 4 and under are free. Local businesses support this event by donating dozens of prizes used for the contestants as well as door prizes for the audience. Join us as we celebrate the voices and talents of our local youth!

Diane Ash

Prevention Specialist/Team Leader

Lawrence High School

1901 Louisiana

Lawrence, Kansas 66044

785-832-5050 ext 1449;785-832-5054 fax

dash@usd497.org

HOW TO TALK TO YOUR TEENS ABOUT SMOKING

2011-10-07T13:07:00.000-05:00

Denise Whitmer is an author and has a very informative web site for parents. Here is some help for parents when talking to teens and preteens about smoking. Read the article below:
http://parentingteens.about.com/bio/Denise-Witmer-403.htm?nl=1

RED RIBBON WEEK OCT 22-30

2011-10-03T10:25:00.000-05:00

Red Ribbon week gives parents and teachers a chance to talk about drugs and drug use in our community. Talking to our youth and listening to what they have to say is a most important step we can take to keep our youth healthy.

From the National DEA: A little History

Drug Enforcement Administration
Office of Public Affairs
202-307-7977

	Red Ribbon Anti-Drug Campaign
	Red Ribbon Week is the nation’s oldest and largest drug prevention program in the nation reaching millions of Americans during the last week of October every year. By wearing red ribbons and participating in community anti-drug events, young people pledge to live a drug-free life and pay tribute to DEA Special Agent Enriqué “Kiki” Camarena. Special Agent Kiki Camarena: Special Agent Camarena was an 11-year veteran of the DEA assigned to the Guadalajara, Mexico, office where he was on the trail of the country’s biggest marijuana and cocaine traffickers. In 1985, he was extremely close to unlocking a multi-billion dollar drug pipeline. On February 7, 1985, he was kidnapped, brutally tortured, and murdered by Mexican drug traffickers. His tragic death opened the eyes of many Americans to the dangers of drugs and the international scope of the drug trade. History of Red Ribbon Week: Shortly after Kiki’s death, Congressman Duncan Hunter and Kiki’s high school friend Henry Lozano launched “Camarena Clubs” in Kiki’s hometown of Calexico, California. Hundreds of club members pledged to lead drug-free lives to honor the sacrifice made by Kiki Camarena. These pledges were delivered to First Lady Nancy Reagan at a national conference of parents combating youth drug use. Several state parent organizations then called on community groups to wear red ribbons during the last week of October as a symbol of their drug-free commitment. The first Red Ribbon Week celebrations were held in La Mirada and Norwalk, California In 1988, the National Family Partnership (NFP) coordinated the first National Red Ribbon Week with President and Mrs. Reagan serving as honorary chairpersons. How to Celebrate Red Ribbon Week: The NFP estimates that more than 80 million people participate in Red Ribbon events each year. The campaign is a unified way for communities to take a stand against drugs and show intolerance for illicit drug use and the consequences to all Americans. Schools, businesses, the faith community, media, families, and community coalitions join together to celebrate Red Ribbon Week in many ways, such as: sponsoring essay and poster contests; organizing drug-free races; decorating buildings in red; handing out red ribbons to customers; holding parades or community events; and by publicizing the value of a drug-free, healthy lifestyle. DEA joins with community coalitions and prevention groups to plan and carry out Red Ribbon activities, ranging from classroom events to stadium-sized rallies.

CELEBRATE FAMILY DAY

2011-09-20T12:52:00.000-05:00

Celebrate Family Day-A day to eat dinner with your children on September 26, 2011
The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse (CASA) created Family Day – A Day to Eat Dinner with Your Children™ in 2001, as a national effort to promote family dinners as an effective way to reduce substance abuse among children and teens. Family Day is celebrated on the fourth Monday in September. Plan your family dinners as often as you can for a healthy community. Make it special (and more enticing) by occasionally inviting your child's friend.

GOT DRUGS? JOIN LAWRENCE TAKE BACK DAY

2011-09-20T12:17:00.000-05:00

Help stop the abuse of perscription drugs. There is a new trend in Lawrence. Six of the top ten drugs used by high school seniors were either perscribed or purchased over the counter. Check your homes for any unused or outdated medications. Bring to the Law Enforcement Center at 111 E 11th St. (11th and New Hampshire). Sponsored by the Douglas County Sherrif's Department, Lawrence Police Department and the DEA. Officers will be outside collecting and will safely dispose of these potentially harmful medications. Let's keep these drugs out of the hands of Lawrence youth.

If you cannot come on October 29th, then follow the Kansas Department of Health and Environment disposal recommendations for pharmaceuticals. Prepare excess medications as follows: crush or dissolve pills in water, coffee, or another liquid. Make a paste of the dissolved pills or liquid medication by adding it to kitty litter or coffee grounds. Put the paste in a closed container, making sure any personal markings are removed. Then put the closed container in the trash.

CENTER FOR ADDICTION AND SUBSTANCE ABUSE REPORT

2011-09-19T12:42:00.000-05:00

CASA Columbia Releases 2011 Teen Survey: National Survey of American Attitudes on Substance Abuse XVI: Teens and Parents
Last week, The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University released the National Survey of American Attitudes on Substance Abuse XVI: Teens and Parents. Click for the summary.

LAWRENCE SERVER TRAINING FOR BARS & RESTAURANTS

2011-09-02T12:59:00.001-05:00

On August 28th, at Lawrence Arts Center representatives from local agencies provided training, including on how to detect fake IDs, for local alcohol servers and retailers. More than 150 staff members from 31 bars and restaurants and three liquor stores attended. Jen Jordan ofDCCCA said organizers were pleased with the turnout, even though they wished more retailers would have attended.

NEW TRADITION COALITION INITIATIVES

2011-08-30T12:43:00.000-05:00

The New Tradition Coalition is involved im three initiatives to help stop underage drinking in Lawrence. read the Lawrence Journal World article for more info.
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2011/aug/29/local-efforts-will-target-underage-drinking/

NTC PARENT DISCUSSION CORNER

2011-08-18T15:27:00.000-05:00

What did you do when your child told you a friend was drinking? Smoking marijuana? Getting high on pills or other drugs?
Lawrence Parents, please add your comments to the question above and let's talk.

DON'T BE BLIND TO THE CONSEQUENCES

2011-06-30T09:11:00.000-05:00

Check out this You Tube clip from the Prevention and Recovery Service in Topeka. Pass it on.

FAMILY ATTITUDES SET THE STAGE TOWARD ALCOHOL USE IN YOUTH

2011-06-30T08:44:00.003-05:00

Influence of Family Factors and Supervised Alcohol Use on Adolescent Alcohol Use and Harms: Similarities Between Youth in Different Alcohol Policy Contexts

McMorris, B., Catalano, R., Jung Kim, M., Toumbourou, J., and Hemphill, S. May 2011. Journal of Studies and Alcohol and Drugs, Vol. 72, Pages 418-428.

Objective of the Study: Harm-minimization policies suggest that alcohol use is a part of normal adolescent development and that parents should supervise their children’s use to encourage responsible drinking. Zero-tolerance policies suggest that all underage alcohol use should be discouraged. This article compared hypotheses derived from harm minimization and zero-tolerance policies regarding the influence of family context and supervised drinking on adolescent alcohol use and related harms among adolescents in Washington State, USA, and Victoria, Australia, two states that have respectively adopted zero-tolerance and harm-minimization policies.

Method: Representative samples of seventh-grade students (N = 1,945; 989 females) were recruited from schools in each state. Students completed comprehensive questionnaires on alcohol use, related problem behaviors, and risk and protective factors annually from 2002 to 2004 when they were in ninth grade.

Results: Relationships between family context and alcohol use and harmful use were very similar in both states. Adult-supervised settings for alcohol use were associated with higher levels of harmful alcohol consequences. Adult-supervised alcohol use mediated the links between favorable parental attitudes to alcohol use and ninth-grade alcohol use for students in both states.

Conclusions: Despite policy differences in the two states, relationships between family context variables and alcohol use and harmful use are remarkably similar. Adult-supervised settings for alcohol use resulted in higher levels of harmful alcohol consequences, contrary to predictions derived from harm-minimization policy. Findings challenge the harm-minimization position that supervised alcohol use or early-age alcohol use will reduce the development of adolescent alcohol problems.

To learn more about this study, click on http://www.udetc.org/documents/judicial/201106eNews/supervised.pdf or copy and paste this link to your internet browser in order to locate the information.

CELEBRATE INDEPENDENCE DAY

2011-06-30T08:20:00.001-05:00

The New Tradition Coalition wants to remind you to celebrate your Independence responsibly-

If you're hosting a party where alcohol is served, make sure to do so responsibly. Some things to keep in mind are:

Line-up designated drivers or make sleeping accommodations for your guests who are drinking.
Be sure to serve plenty of non-alcoholic drinks.
Serve enough substantive food. Consumption of food will help absorb alcohol.
Stop serving alcohol at a set time. This will give guests a chance to sober up.
If your guests are intoxicated -- take away the keys. If you let someone leave your home after they've had too much to drink, you could be held responsible if they hurt themselves or someone else.
Don't serve to minors. It's illegal, dangerous and irresponsible.

If you're doing some traveling, here are a few tips:

Whenever you plan on using alcohol, designate a sober driver before going out and give that person the keys.
If you're impaired, call a taxi, use mass transit or call a sober friend or family member to get you home safely.
Promptly report drunk drivers you see on the roadways to law enforcement.
Wearing your safety belt or if you're riding a motorcycle, make sure to wear a helmet and other protective gear.
While traveling to and from celebrations on your motorcycle, remember to make yourself visible and ride your motorcycle where you can be seen to avoid a crash.
If you know someone who is about to drive or ride while impaired, take their keys and help them make other arrangements to get to where they are going safely.

ADVICE ABOUT PARENT TROUBLED TEENS

2011-06-27T11:27:00.002-05:00

Parents of troubled teens need expert advice and support. Read the information below to help you stay on the right track. And keep in mind - troubled teens do get better.
http://parentingteens.about.com/od/parentingtroubledteens/a/6-Tips-For-Parenting-Troubled-Teens.htm?nl=1

STICKER SHOCK

2011-05-10T10:11:00.002-05:00

Dozens of area high school students visited local liquor stores last Saturday morning, but they weren’t trying to buy liquor. They had a message for of-age consumers: Don’t buy alcohol for them. Visit these articles about the New Tradition Youth Coalition and see their efforts to curb the practice of buying alcohol for minors.

http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2011/apr/14/high-schoolers-hope-sticker-shock-discourages-prov/
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2011/apr/16/high-school-students-take-stand-against-underage-d/

RESEARCH ON BULLYING

2011-04-27T09:49:00.000-05:00

Research Note
Bullying Linked to Violence at Home
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recently published the results of a study that suggests bullying may be associated with family violence.
To assess the association between family violence and other risk factors and being involved in or affected by bul¬lying, the CDC and the Massachusetts Department of Public Health analyzed data from the 2009 Massachusetts Youth Health Survey, an anonymous paper and pencil survey conducted every two years. The study included 2,859 middle school students and 2,948 high school students. Overall response rates were 55.8 percent and 66.7 percent for middle and high school students, respectively. The participants were categorized based on their responses to two survey items related to bullying. The following are the four student categories along with the percentage of surveyed students who fell in each category:
• Victims of bullying: 26.8 percent of middle school and 15.6 percent of high school students
• Bullies: 7.5 percent of middle school and 8.4 percent of high school students
• Bully-victims (those who had been victims of bullying and had bullied others): 9.6 percent of middle school and 6.5 percent of high school students
• Neither (those who had neither bullied others nor were victims of bullying): 50.6 percent of middle school and 69.5 percent of high school students

The study found that bullies, victims, and bully-victims were significantly more likely to be physically hurt by a family member or to have witnessed violence at home than students who were not involved in bullying. After adjusting for potential differences by age, group, sex, and race and ethnicity, researchers created the following adjusted odds ratios (AORs)—or likelihood of involvement in bullying:
• For middle school students being physically hurt by a member of the family: 2.9 for victims (that is, the odds of being a victim are 2.9 times higher than for someone who was not being physically hurt by a member of the family), 4.4 for bullies, and 5 for bully-victims
• For middle school students witnessing family violence, 2.6 for victims, 2.9 for bullies, and 3.9 for bully-victims
• For high school students being physically hurt by a family member: 2.8 for victims, 3.8 for bullies, and 5.4 for bully-victims
• For high school students witnessing family violence: 2.3 for victims, 2.7 for bullies, and 6.8 for bully-victims

The researchers also examined risk factors that have been well documented in previous studies. They found significantly elevated AORs for victims, bullies, and bully-victims for the majority of these risk factors. The following are some results (AORs) for middle school students:

• Seriously considering suicide: 3.0 for victims, 4.1 for bullies, and 6.6 for bully-victims
• Intentionally injuring themselves, 2.3 for victims, 3.1 for bullies, and 7.4 for bully-victims
• Feeling sad or hopeless, 2.3 for victims, 2.1 for bullies, and 4.2 bully-victims

Similar patterns were observed among high school students. This report presents the first state-specific data on a broad range of risk factors suspected to be associated with bullying for middle and high school students. The researchers note that these results “underscore the importance of primary bullying prevention programs and of comprehensive programs and strategies that involve families.”

This study was published in the April 22, 2011, Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report.

6 Tips to Create a Safe Prom and High-School Graduation Season for Your Teen

2011-04-19T17:19:00.000-05:00

There’s something about prom and graduation season that makes rational parents go bonkers. Here are 6 tips for parents to help keep their teen safe and make this season one to remember for all the right reasons.

http://decoder.drugfree.org/2011/04/08/5-tips-to-create-a-safe-prom-and-high-school-graduation-season-for-your-teen/

PROM NIGHT DRAMA

2011-04-19T17:16:00.000-05:00

A healthy discussion with your teenager may make prom night a little easier. Here are some articles on prom and alcohol, drugs, sex and more that may make those talks more comfortable and prom a little safer.

http://decoder.drugfree.org/category/education/high-school/prom/
http://decoder.drugfree.org/2010/04/29/for-a-safe-prom-night-parents-please-don%E2%80%99t-serve-alcohol-to-teens/

ARE TEENS GETTING ALCOHOL FROM MY HOME?

2011-04-07T11:11:00.005-05:00

A new study of young teens revealed some surprising facts about their drinking habits, specifically where they get their booze. An estimated 700,000 U.S. kids in the 12 to 14 year old age group (which is about 5.9 percent) had consumed alcohol in the past month, and of those, nearly half got it for free from their family or at home. The study, conducted by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMSHA) as part of the National Survey on Drug Abuse and Health, shows that family members can play a big role in reducing kids' access to alcohol and preventing underage drinking. "People who begin drinking alcohol before the age of 15 are six times more likely than those who start at age 21 and older to develop alcohol problems, " SAMSHA administrator Pamela Hyde told MHND. If you're one to have an occasional post-work cocktail or wine with dinner, you are likely have spirits in your house. But do you keep it under lock and key? Should you? Post Below. To read more about the study go to: http://www.drugfree.org/join-together/addiction/over-700000-young-teens-2

DESIGNER DRUGS

2011-04-07T10:42:00.004-05:00

Ever heard of "fake marijuana" or "legal speed"? These are the new designer drugs and kids don't really know what they are taking. To find out more, read the Project Alert newsletter. http://www.projectalert.com/newsletters/spring-2011/designer-drugs-fashion-goes-synthetic

2011-04-06T09:33:00.003-05:00

Here's a great book for teens written by a teen. Chandler Dewitt writes about choices youth make from junior high through young adulthood. It is a great book for teens who are transitioning from grade school, junior high and even high school seniors- a graduation gift that keeps on giving! Visit this link for details. http://www.connectwithkids.com/insideout/index.shtml

BUYERS BEWARE-SEE WHAT KIDS SAY

2011-03-16T08:37:00.003-05:00

Watch this video and what teens and experts say about their experience when parents allow drinking in their homes. It is easy to allow underage drinking in your home and very difficult to control and monitor it the risky behavior that may follow. Should parents confer or ask if it is OK with other parents before letting their teen drink in their home? How are the teen drinking parties being monitored? Would you trust that your teen is safe? It is against the law. Is it worth it?
http://www.youtube.com/connectwithkids#p/u/2/xVemAO52BEk

LETTER TO PARENTS

2011-03-14T10:39:00.002-05:00

Newsletter: April 2011

Teens, Parties, and Alcohol Don’t Mix

Many well-meaning parents think that it is enough to take away car keys at their teen’s parties so the teens can’t drink and drive. Parents provide the alcohol or allow alcohol to be consumed based on the false belief that it’s a rite of passage, especially at prom and graduation parties.

Parents often cite these two misguided reasons, safety and rite of passage, for hosting teen parties where alcohol is served. They believe it is “safer” for kids to drink at home, and may even think that hosting teen parties makes them appear to be a “cool” parent. When parents serve alcohol to teens in their home, in reality what they are doing is facilitating their kids’ comfort with alcohol. This practice sends a mixed message. Teens believe, “If it’s OK to drink at home, it’s OK to drink.” The reality is that the consequences can be overwhelming and in extreme cases fatal.

Parents planning to host parties for their teens should think twice before serving alcohol. Hosting a party for teenagers with alcohol can be costly. It is illegal, unsafe, and unhealthy for anyone under the age of 21 to drink alcohol.

Here are the laws in Lawrence:
• You cannot host minors consuming alcoholic liquor or cereal malt beverages at your residence, land, building or rented room (ex: hotel).

• As an adult, it is unlawful to directly or indirectly sell to, buy for, give or furnish any alcoholic liquor or beer to anyone under the age of 21.

• Furnishing/purchasing alcohol can result in a minimum fine of $200 and a sentence of up to 6 months in jail and up to $1,000 in fines plus, court and legal fees.

• Hosting a party carries a minimum fine of $1,000 or up to $2,500 with up to a year in county jail, plus court and legal fees.

We hope you will partner with the New Tradition Coalition and the City of Lawrence as we launch the “Parents Who Host, Lose The Most” public awareness campaign to help parents think about the dangers of teenage drinking parties. The campaign stresses to parents that hosting teen drinking parties should not be regarded as a “rite of passage” but as a health and safety problem with legal ramifications. Don’t be a party to teenage drinking. Refuse to supply alcohol to children in your home or on your property; be at home when your teenager has a party; make sure your teenager’s friends do not bring alcohol into your home (even if that means checking backpacks and purses); talk to other parents about providing alcohol-free beverages at youth events; provide teenagers with opportunities for alcohol-free events and activities, and report underage drinking. Call 1-866-MUST-BE-21, or your local police to report violations. Together, we can make the difference.

SPRING BREAK TIPS FOR TEENS AND PARENTS

2011-03-11T10:47:00.000-06:00

Spring break is right around the corner. Here are some tips for parents and teens taking a trip. Feel free to print these pages and take to the dinner table. It is just another excuse to talk to teens! You'll be glad you did and they will have the tools to stay safe.

http://www.theantidrug.com/springbreak/

http://www.wcupa.edu/dps/PDF/Spring%20Break%20Tips.pdf

2011-03-11T10:20:00.003-06:00

Many news outlets have picked up our story about the Fake ID 101 project in Lawrence, Kansas. It is an itiative that strives to create a community wide change in attitudes about underage drinking and using fake ID's to get alcohol. It is against the law and Lawrence is serious about it.
Pick a source and read more:

http://www.kansan.com/news/2011/mar/10/coalition-targets-fake-ids-among-students/?news
www.eldoradotimes.com/.../Lawrence-coalition-still-working-to-fight-fake- IDs
www.kansas.com/2011/03/.../group-turns-to-facebook-to-fight.html
www.allfacebook.com/facebook-ad-targets-teenagers-looking-for-fake-ids
blogs.pitch.com/.../ku_mclovins_beware_fake_id_crackdown_underway_in_ lawrence.php
www.fox4kc.com/.../wdaf-fake-id-crackdown-in-lawrence-20110307,0, 4533506.story
www.wibw.com/.../Group_Turns_To_Facebook_To_Fight_Fake_IDs_ 117516918.html

FAKE ID 101 CAMPAIGN

2011-02-28T09:44:00.001-06:00

February 26, 2011 Excerpt from Lawrence Journal World article
No Faking: Lawrence police cracking down on bogus IDs
Archive for Saturday, February 26, 2011
Coalition uses KDOT grant to fight underage drinking

The Facebook ad targeted Lawrence area youths who might be looking for a fake ID.
Apparently, the power of advertising works.

A total of 5,247 people between the ages of 16 and 20 clicked on the ad that featured a fake ID using the character “McLovin’” from the movie “Superbad” during a 60-day period last semester.

But instead of getting a chance to obtain a fake ID that could be used to try to buy booze at Lawrence liquor stores and bars, people who clicked on the ad were directed to a website: the New Tradition Coalition of Lawrence, which combats alcohol abuse and underage drinking.

Coalition members said interest in the Facebook ad clearly illustrates the demand for fake IDs and the prevalence of underage drinking in Lawrence, particularly among Kansas University students.

“That bothered me because that many kids actually clicked on it because they were thinking they were going to get a fake ID,” said Jen Jordan, director of prevention for DCCCA. “We know that underage drinking is an issue in Lawrence and at KU and other colleges. We’re just trying to address it.”

Among the efforts is a project dubbed Fake ID 101.
See more at:
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2011/feb/26/no-faking-lawrence-police-cracking-down-bogus-ids/

MYTHS ABOUT KIDS & DRINKING

2011-01-29T10:25:00.002-06:00

Young people drink to have a good time.
A RECENT NATIONAL SURVEY OF JUNIOR AND SENIOR HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS TELLS A MUCH DIFFERENT STORY. MORE THAN 30% OF TEENAGERS DRINK ALONE; BOREDOM AND EMOTIONAL DISTRESS ARE AMONG THE REASONS WHY THEY SAY THEY DRINK.

Alcohol is less dangerous than other drugs such as marijuana, cocaine, or LSD.
CAR CRASHES, SUICIDES. HOMICIDES AND DROWNING ARE ALL ASSOCIATED WITH ALCOHOL USE AND MAKE IT THE NUMBER–ONE DRUG PROBLEM FOR YOUNG PEOPLE. IN FACT, THE MOST LIKELY CAUSE OF DEATH FOR A 16-YEAR OLD IS ALCOHOL-RELATED.

If I let my child drink at home, he or she will be less likely to get into trouble with alcohol outside the home.
RESEARCH SHOWS TEENAGERS WHOSE PARENTS ALLOW THEM TO DRINK AT HOME ARE MORE LIKELY TO DRINK OUTSIDE THE HOME AND TO USE OTHER DRUGS. THEY ALSO HAVE A MUCH GREATER CHANCE OF DEVELOPING A SERIOUS PROBLEM.

So long as my child doesn’t drive, it’s okay for him or her to drink.
TEENS DON’T DRINK THE SAME WAY ADULTS DO. MANY TEENS ENGAGE IN “BINGE DRINKING” AND DOWN THEIR DRINKS QUICKLY SO THAT THEY WILL GET DRUNK. WHEN THEY ARE DRUNK THEY ARE MORE LIKELY TO DRINK AND DRIVE, OR TO RIDE WITH ANOTHER TEEN WHO HAS BEEN DRINKING.

A FEW UNDERAGE DRINKING FACTS

2011-01-29T10:00:00.004-06:00

Every day, 5,400 young people under 16 have their first drink of alcohol. (Source: Center on Alcohol Marketing and Youth with calculations from Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, 2004 National Survey on Drug Use and Health)

Studies reveal that alcohol consumption by adolescents results in brain damage - possibly permanent -and impairs intellectual development. (Source: Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research (Volume 24, Number 2 National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism)

Adolescents drink less and have fewer alcohol-related problems when their parents discipline them consistently and set clear expectations. (Source: Hawkins JD, Graham JW, Maguin E, et al. 1997 Exploring the effects of age of alcohol use initiation and psychosocial risk factors on subsequent alcohol misuse. Journal of Studies on Alcohol. 58(3): 280-290)

When drinking is delayed until age 21, a child’s risk of serious alcohol problems is decreased by 70 percent. (Source: Calculated from information contained in: Grant BF, Dawson DA. 1997, Age at onset of alcohol use and its association with DSM-IV alcohol abuse and dependence. Results from the National Longitudinal Alcohol Epidemiologic Survey. Journal of Substance Abuse 9:103-110.)

NEW TEXTING & DRIVING LAW

2011-01-19T08:49:00.002-06:00

May 24th, 2010 - Kansas Texting Bill Signed into Law
Kansas Senate Bill 300 has been signed into law by Governor Parkinson.

The new law prohibits drivers from writing, sending, or reading a text message while driving.

The ban on text messaging went into effect on January 1st, 2011.

The minimum fine is $60 plus court costs and the maximum fine is $150. The consequences of texting while driving are even higher! Share this new law with people you know.

KANSAS LAWS DUI & FAKE ID'S

2011-01-18T12:25:00.001-06:00

Besides the obvious consequences that drinking and driving pose, minors may not know the legal consequences of drinking and driving. Fake ID's are easy to get in Lawrence. Many 21 year olds lend their duplicate ID's to friends. Parents, you can print this brochure and share the Kansas laws with your teens. They may be misinformed about blood alcohol content, penalties for BORROWED OR FAKE ID'S, drunk driving penalties and costs. Here's the scoop:
http://www.ktsro.org/images/DUIBrochureEnglish.pdf

34 WARNING Signs of Drug Use

2011-01-01T12:12:00.002-06:00

If you are suspicious your child may be using drugs, don't ignore the warning signs. Children seldom grasp the concepts of addiction. Most view themselves as imperious to peril. For some teens, the stress of adolescence and pressure from their peers is overwhelming, and drugs become an enticing escape from their real world.

1. Neglected appearance/hygiene
2. Poor self image
3. Grades dropping
4. Violent outbursts at home
5. Frequent use of Eye Wash
6. Unexplained weight drop
7. Drug Paraphernalia
8. Slurred speech
9. Curfew violations
10. Running away
11. Skin abrasions
12. Hostility towards family members
13. Chemical breath
14.Glassy eyes
15.Red eyes
16.Valuables Missing
17. Possessing unexplained valuables
18. Stealing/borrowing money
19.Change in friends
20. Depression
21. Withdrawal
22.Apathy
23.Reckless Behavior
24.No Concern about future
25. Defiles Family Values
26. Disrespectful to parents
27. Lying/Deception
28. Sneaky behavior
29. Disregards Consequences
30. Loss of Interest in healthy activities
31. Verbally abusive
32. Manipulative/Self-Centered
33. Lack of Motivation
34. Truancy

What are the symptoms and warning signs of drug abuse?

2011-01-01T11:57:00.004-06:00

Share with your family - kids need to know what goes on around them among their peers or others they may encounter throughout young adulthood. Knowing if a person is on drugs may help deal with risky situations. It's never too early to talk.

Signs that indicate a person is intoxicated or "high" on a drug depends on the substance with which he or she is intoxicated and include:
Tobacco products: frequent smell of tobacco, irritability, discolored fingertips, lips or teeth, cigarette butts at curbside;
Cannabinoids: reddened whites of eyes, sleepiness, excessive hunger, lack of motivation, excessive happiness, paranoia;
Cold medications: sleepiness, rapid or slowed heart rate;
Inhalants: runny nose, smell of gasoline or other solvent, confusion or irritability;
Depressants: sleepiness, lowered inhibitions, poor coordination, slowed heart rate or blood pressure, dizziness, coma, death in overdose;
Stimulants: rapid heart rate or blood pressure, irritability, excessive happiness, less need for sleep, paranoia, seizures;
Narcotics: less experiencing of pain, excessive happiness, sleepiness, slowed or stopped breathing, coma, death in overdose;
Hallucinogens: trouble sleeping, blurred perceptions, paranoia;
Dissociative anesthetics: higher blood pressure and heart rate, memory loss, nausea and vomiting, irritability, aggressiveness;
Club drugs (for example, Ecstasy): feverish teen that does not sweat, finding multiple lollipops or other hard candies, the teen seeming to love everyone and/or have an excessively happy mood (euphoria);
Others (for example, anabolic steroids): increased irritability or aggressiveness, rapid increase in muscle definition, thinning or loss of head hair, marked increase in acne over a short period of time, finding needles.
The physical symptoms of withdrawal from these drugs are often nearly the opposite of the effects of intoxication.

How can parents prevent drug use?

2011-01-01T11:39:00.003-06:00

Here are a few simple things that researchers have found effective.

Clear communication by parentsabout the negative physical, emotional, and functional effects of drugs, as well as about their expectations regarding drug use have been found to significantly decrease substance abuse in teens. Adequate parental supervision has also been found to be a deterrent to drug use in youth. Specifically, parents knowing how, where, and with whom adolescents socialize, as well as limiting their children's access to substances that can be abused have been associated with less teenage drug use.

Limiting the amount of alcohol, cleaning solutions (inhalants), prescription, and over-the-counter medications that are kept in the home to amounts that can be closely monitored and accounted for has also been found to decrease substance abuse by teens.

Family focused abuse-prevention programs have produced reductions in adolescent drug abuse. Among ethnic minorities in the United States (for example African Americans, Hispanic, Native and Asian Americans), those who strongly identify with their communities and cultures have been found to be less likely to experience risk factors for using drugs compared to their peers who are less connected to their communities and cultures.

Therefore, incorporation of a cultural component to drug abuse prevention programs may enhance the effectiveness of those programs.

Moreover, teens 15 to 16 years old who use religion to cope with stress tend to use drugs significantly less often than their peers who do not use religion to cope.
Alcohol, and other drug use has been found to occur most often between the hours of 3 and 6 p.m., immediately after school and prior to parents coming home from work.

Teen participation in extracurricular activities has therefore been revealed as an important measure in preventing substance abuse in this age group.

KU Students Complete AlcoholEdu Course

2010-12-02T10:22:00.004-06:00

KU instituted an online course two years ago to help educate students about alcohol use and abuse. It is the same test given by universities across the country. The test gives students the facts about drinking and the effects of alcohol on the body and brain. One thing teaches all students is how to spot alcohol poisoning and what to do if someone is in trouble. That is valuable in light of the recent alcohol related deaths on the KU campus. 94% of eligible students under the age of 22 completed the course.

http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2010/nov/29/94-percent-ku-students-complete-alcoholedu-course/

HELP FOR TALKING TO YOUR CHILD

2010-11-29T20:00:00.006-06:00

Remember the fried egg? ..."This is your brain on drugs." We were young then - maybe close to the age of our children now. The organization that put that campaign together is the "Partnership for a Drugfree America". It was around before there even was a world wide web. Today, they have a web site that helps parents every day.

The Partnership at Drugfree.org is a nonprofit organization that helps parents prevent, intervene in and find treatment for drug and alcohol use by their children. By bringing together renowned scientists, parent experts and communications professionals, we not only translate current research on teen behavior, addiction and treatment into easy to understand, actionable resources at drugfree.org, but we offer hope and help to the parents of the 11 million teens and young adults who need help with drugs and alcohol.

Their website allows parents to connect with each other, tap into expert advice and find support in their role as hero to their kids.

Suspect that your child is using alcohol or drugs? Check out this link and learn how to deal with it. Lots of great resources and ideas!

http://www.drugfree.org/intervene

Alcohol and Energy Drinks = A Bad Mix

2010-11-23T16:07:00.002-06:00

Joose and Four Loko are just a couple of the names of these popular alcoholic drinks that are flying off the shelves. They are 24 ounce cans and have about 5.6 drinks in one can. These drinks have caused a huge stir due to the amount of alcohol you get at a very cheap price. The problem is they are a huge health risk because alcohol is a depressant and the energy drink is a stimulant. These two opposite beverages in the same can causes a lot of harm to the body. Some states have already banned them and now the FDA is looking into their safety. Kansas banned them and these drinks are to not be sold anymore after December 1st. For more information click on the link below:

http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2010/nov/22/statehouse-live-alcoholic-energy-drinks-banned-sta/

ALCOHOL 101 COLLEGE

2010-11-22T11:00:00.001-06:00

Here's a great web site to send on to your college bound or current college student. Try it out yourself then, pass it on to some young people in your life. This website, created for the Century Council, features a compelling and fun Flash presentation, information to curb alcohol abuse by college students, and an extensive private section of the website that includes an online discussion board.
Colorful, student-oriented graphics and layout keep the mood light, while thoroughly documented information on how to prevent alcohol abuse aimed at first year students, student athletes, fraternity members, and those who get caught drinking while driving helps students to address an issue that affects every college campus.

http://www.alcohol101plus.org/home.html

1 866 MUST B 21 (1 866 687 8221)

2010-11-22T10:14:00.005-06:00

Heard about any unsupervised drinking parties your underage child may end up at this weekend? Do you know where underage youth are drinking right now or later tonight? Many Junior High and High Schoolers seek out homes in Lawrence, college friends' apartments and land just outside of town to have drinking parties with no adult supervision every weekend. Unfortunately, it is far too easy to get alcohol as a minor in Lawrence so, put 2 and 2 together and a dangerous situation is created.

What should concerned parents and community members do? Call for help. The Kansas Department of Transportation offers the 1-866-MUST-B-21 hot line to help curb underage drinking. The toll-free tip line operates 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and is available for citizens to anonymously report parties involving underage drinking, plans to purchase alcohol for underage persons, and retailers who sell alcohol to underage persons.
Help us all keep kids safe and use this valuable service used by communities all across Kansas.

To anonymously report underage drinking or the sale of alcohol to a minor, call:

•1-866-MUST-B-21

ALCOHOL AND THE TEENAGE BRAIN

2010-11-22T09:47:00.006-06:00

Duke University recently announced the permanent cancellation of tail-gating at football games after a 14-year-old was found passed out drunk in a port-a-potty before the game. A study by John Hopkins University finds the average age of drinking onset for women is 17.4 and 16.5 for men. What does alcohol do to the developing teenage brain?
Read this tip sheet from the experts. When you look at National statistics, remember, Lawrence ranks at or above these numbers since we too are a 'college town'.

http://www.connectwithkids.com/tipsheet/2010/516_nov17/thisweek/101117_alcohol.shtml

PARENTS-ALCOHOL EDU COURSE ONLINE

2010-11-19T11:33:00.006-06:00

Universities across the country, including KU, require students to take an AlcoholEdu online course as freshmen. There is now a version for parents to take called AlcoholEdu for high school parents. Although it is called "for high school parents" it is a great tool for parents of younger children as well.

This is a FREE 15-minute Prevention Course designed to help parents have an effective conversation with their son or daughter about underage drinking. This is not your typical resource website.

AlcoholEdu for Parents helps parents to understand Social Host Liability, dispels common incorrect perceptions about underage drinking, assists with strategies and techniques for monitoring and setting rules, gives guidance on what to do if your teen is experimenting, and shares expert advice for dealing with common situations.

I encourage you each to experience it for yourself and share with your friends and colleagues.

Logging in is easy and it is always available!

1. Go to http://highschoolparents.alcoholedu.com
2. Under New User type: share
3. Click “Sign Up”!
Here are a few ideas to distribute to parents you know across Lawrence.

• Promote the course - more than once throughout the year – prevention is a sustained effort.
• Put these instructions on your Website/Facebook Page so it is easy for parents to find them.
• Encourage parents to share with their peers.

Pass it on to other Lawrence Parents - especially those with elementary students. It is never too early to learn how to talk to your kids about alcohol.

2010-11-02T15:01:00.005-05:00

Fake ID 101 is a Lawrence initiative to get our under 21's reason to think twice about using a fake ID in this town. Kansas Department of Transportation has given Douglas County a grant to put more enforcement on the streets and more educational information in front of those minors who are using or thinking about using fake ID's
Heads up.
If you're under 21 years old and plan on using a fake or borrowed ID to get into a bar or buy alcohol in Lawrence, you may want to think again. Extra law enforcement will be on the lookout for individuals using fake ids this fall semester. And if you are caught, it will cost you more than just a little embarrassment. Find out about the consequences...
Check out our web site at www.newtraditioncoalition.org

ADULTS FACE CHARGES FOR HOSTING MINORS

2010-11-02T14:48:00.005-05:00

Notice to parents: Host a party with alcoholic drinks for the under-21 crowd and an uninvited guest could be the police.

Read more about these Kansas City parents who make the wrong choice: http://www.kansascity.com/2010/11/01/2380637/adults-face-charges-for-hosting.html#ixzz149kvKTY0

CDC SURVEY LOOKS AT GRADES

2010-10-29T10:33:00.004-05:00

Check out the Center for Disease Control and Prevention survey of our nation's youth.

What is the relationship between alcohol and other drug use and academic achievement?
Data presented below from the 2009 National Youth Risk Behavior Survey (YRBS) show a negative association between alcohol and other drug use and academic achievement after controlling for sex, race/ethnicity, and grade level. This means that students with higher grades are less likely to engage in alcohol and other drug use behaviors than their classmates with lower grades, and students who do not engage in alcohol and other drug use behaviors receive higher grades than their classmates who do engage in alcohol and other drug use behaviors.

Not surprising to adults but, something to share with Lawrence Youth who may not see the correlation.

http://www.cdc.gov/healthyyouth/health_and_academics/pdf/alcohol_other_drug.pdf

GIFT FOR YOUR SPORTS FAN

2010-10-29T10:14:00.003-05:00

October 27, 2010
Apolo Ohno book tour hits the east coast!
The Century Council is working together with Apolo Anton Ohno as he brings his book tour to the East Coast! His book, Zero Regrets, outlines his journey from growing up in Seattle, WA to becoming the most decorated U.S. Winter Olympian in history. In the book, he discusses the choices he faced during his journey.

"The decisions I made as a young teen heavily influenced where I am today. In fact, many of the decisions I've made off-the-ice have contributed most to my success."

This may be the perfect gift for your young teenager!

2010-10-18T13:35:00.003-05:00

Ever heard of Well Commons?
It is a web site community working to improve health in Douglas County, KS. The New Tradition Coalition is linked up to this site and we support its cause.
http://wellcommons.com/groups/new-tradition-coalition/

Win up to $90 in Dillon’s gift cards by entering this Family Day contest

2010-09-22T12:19:00.004-05:00

Get Involved - Family Day-A day to eat dinner with your children
The 4th Monday in September - September 27, 2010

See the web site below for ways to win!

http://wellcommons.com/groups/family-day-story-contest/

PRINCETON REVIEW OF PARTY SCHOOL RANKINGS OUT

2010-09-03T10:59:00.004-05:00

The Princeton Review just released its ranking of the nation's biggest party schools – billed as the list of colleges where students really know how to have a good time. KU did not make the top ten list. For some kids, those times are starting way before college. CDC research reports that 72 percent of high school students have used alcohol. How can parents recognize warning signs that their teen may have a drinking problem?
Read more...

http://www.connectwithkids.com/tipsheet/2010/505_sep1/thisweek/100901_drinking.shtml

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE NEW TRADITION COALITION

2010-09-03T10:24:00.005-05:00

The New Tradition Coalition has been operating for three years and has already made an impact in our community. Here are some of the things we have been involved in:
Lawrence Social Hosting Laws
Fake ID 101 initiative
S.A.F.E. Homes directory of like minded Lawrence families
Parent Network group with monthly meetings to discuss teen issues.
Web site with parent resources
This Blog site that keeps the community current on underage drinking and substance abuse issues
School, government, health and law enforcement agencies network
And... up to now, we have been unfunded and worked strictly with volunteers.

Because of the hard work of all of our volunteers, we have been awarded a federal "Drug Free Community Grant" that will enable us to move forward on bigger and better programs for Lawrence. Proudly, we are one of 176 recipients and the only one in Kansas. Originally funded by Congress in 1997 with the understanding that local problems need local solutions, the Drug Free Communities (DFC) program now supports over 700 drug-free community coalitions across the United States. As a cornerstone of ONDCP's National Drug Control Strategy, DFC provides the funding necessary for communities to identify and respond to local substance use problems.

Congratulations to all who worked on the grant, who are on the coalition and to the City of Lawrence who will reap the rewards.
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2010/sep/02/coalition-receives-grant-combat-teen-drug-use-drin/#comments

2010-08-24T11:57:00.005-05:00

Do your kids have siblings? They may have a great influence on each other. Read this article and share with your family. Parents remain the biggest influence in a child's life but, siblings are too. They want to please each other and make each other proud. Why not utilize other family members to keep everyone accountable to the values you set in your home?
http://www.connectwithkids.com/tipsheet/2010/503_aug18/thisweek/100818_love.shtml

TEEN TRANSITIONS TO NEW SCHOOLS

2010-08-23T12:19:00.000-05:00

The research-based guide “Transitions & Teens: A Guide for Parents” is available as a free download at TimeToTalk.org, and was created in consultation with parenting experts, psychologists and family therapists. The guide helps parents understand how transition periods—like back to school, starting a new school, divorce, and even financial trouble at home—can impact a child’s vulnerability to risky behaviors, including drugs and alcohol.

http://www.timetotalk.org/downloads/transition_guide_1c.pdf

PARENTS, YOU'RE NOT DONE YET

2010-08-08T11:19:00.000-05:00

Share these pamphlets and discussions with your child before they go off to college. It will set a healthy foundation of communication when they leave the nest. Check out "College Drinking 101". It is a fun, online test to see how much is too much for your height and weight.

http://www.centurycouncil.org/stop-underage-drinking/initiatives

BINGE DRINKING AND THE ADOLSCENT BRAIN

2010-07-23T08:44:00.000-05:00

Studies show that teens who binge drink are doing serious damage to the "white matter" in their developing brain. This causes memory loss and low school performance. Share this article with your teen. They may not know the long term damage they are doing during times of heavy drinking.

http://kansasfamily.com/ns/newsdetail.cfm?NID=65

PRESCRIPTION DRUGS AND TEENS

2010-07-16T10:02:00.004-05:00

Teens see prescription drugs as 'safe' and easy to obtain. If you have prescription drugs in your house, it is a good idea to be aware of what you have and keep them away from the teens who live with you or visit your home. Teens using prescription pain killers, Adderall, Sudafed, and other 'legal' drugs is a growing trend in Lawrence. There is big money in it for those who score from any medicine cabinet. Some Lawrence youth are having 'skittles' parties where they throw all the pills in a bowl and dig in! See this helpful article and video link: http://www.connectwithkids.com/tipsheet/2010/498_jul14/thisweek/100714_drugs.shtml

Why Do Adults Condone Underage Drinking?

2010-07-09T11:01:00.005-05:00

Are you sure there is active parental supervision at the homes where underage drinking is condoned? Are kids leaving the home drunk? Are the parents cutting kids off when they go beyond 'social drinking'? (1 drink per hour is the rate at which the liver can metabolize alcohol-the excess goes into the blood stream and causes inebriation)? Are they also allowing the risky behaviors that go on with teen drinking? Do they ask if the kids are predisposed to alcoholism due to genetics? Do they ask where the kids got the alcohol they are bringing in to the home? Do you ask yourself if it is a wise message to condone teens to break the law?
It is a fallacy that allowing underage drinking in your home is to keep kids safe. Research shows that adolescents may be more vulnerable to brain damage from excessive drinking than older drinkers. Alcohol impairs brain activity in the receptors responsible for memory and learning, and young people who binge drink could be facing serious brain damage today and increased memory loss in years to come. If one begins drinking at an early age, he/she is more likely to face alcohol addiction. Click on the following video link...
http://www.connectwithkids.com/tipsheet/2010/497_jul7/thisweek/100707_drinking.shtml

HELPING STUDENTS WHO ARE AWAY FROM HOME

2010-07-08T09:00:00.000-05:00

As a parent of a college student there are things that you should know and actions you can take to help your child make responsible decisions and avoid many of the problems associated with drinking while they're away at school. Check the local web sites about school alcohol policies and city social hosting laws. KU and the city of Lawrence have instituted many new policies and laws just this year. Send your student off prepared with the facts. Set up open communication about alcohol and drugs so if your child gets in over their head, either by drinking too much or being around it when it is out of control, they can call you for help and advice. Make sure your college student knows the signs of alcohol poisoning and what they must do to help their friends in need. Have them designate two or three friends they can call if they find themselves in trouble and need help themselves. Talk about the dangers of doing 21 shots on their 21st birthday. (Ever heard of a "Shot Book"- a scrap book documenting the progression of the birthday girl doing 21 shots throughout the night?) Below are some good conversation starters for you and your college bound student.

http://cocktails.about.com/od/healthsafety/a/college_drinkin.htm

http://www.haverford.edu/firstyear/files/parentsbrochure.pdf

http://www.brad21.org/pdf/Alcohol%20Poisoning_8.05.pdf

KEEP OUR YOUTH SAFE THIS 4TH OF JULY

2010-07-02T11:43:00.003-05:00

Underage Drinking-Related Hospital Department Visits Nearly Double over the 4th of July Weekend
Hospital emergency department visits involving underage drinking nearly double during the Fourth of July Holiday weekend according to a new study by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). The study reveals that daily underage drinking-related visits to hospital emergency departments are 87 percent higher during the Fourth of July weekend than they are on an average day in July. The report estimates that on an average day in July, there are 502 hospital emergency department visits involving underage alcohol use. For the three day Fourth of July weekend however, the number of daily hospital emergency department visits jumps to 938.
"Underage drinking is not a harmless right of passage. It has far-reaching consequences. In addition to emergency department visits, injuries, arrests and embarrassment, 5,000 deaths in people under age 21 are linked to alcohol each year," said SAMHSA Administrator Pamela S. Hyde, J.D. "Parents are a leading influence in their children’s decision to avoid alcohol. To help parents make the tough job of raising children a little easier, SAMHSA provides an online action plan to help parents talk with their children about expectations regarding alcohol use."
The study was developed as part of the agency’s strategic initiative on data, outcomes, and quality - an effort to inform policy makers and service providers on the nature and scope of behavioral health issues. It is based on SAMHSA’s 2008 Drug Alert Warning Network (DAWN) report. DAWN is a public health surveillance system that monitors drug-related hospital emergency department visits reported throughout the nation.
A copy of the study is available at: http://oas.samhsa.gov/spotlight/Spotlight003UnderageAlcoholUse.pdf.
Information and materials on how to help prevent underage drinking are available at: http://www.underagedrinking.samhsa.gov/
Also be sure to check out the Underage Drinking: Talk EARLY. Talk OFTEN: Get Others INVOLVED campaign Web site.

APOLO OHNO SPEAKS OUT FOR HEALTHY CHOICES

2010-06-18T10:28:00.004-05:00

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY TO ALL YOU DADS OUT THERE!
Apolo and Yuki Ohno celebrate Father's Day with a special message
June 18, 2010
Just in time for Father’s Day, eight-time Winter Games medalist and Dancing with the Stars champ Apolo Anton Ohno and his father, Yuki Ohno, were interviewed by radio and TV shows all over the country to talk about the importance of a supportive parent as well as of an active and healthy lifestyle.
SEE MORE...
http://www.asklistenlearn.com/blog

SHOULD PARENTS ALLOW UNDERAGE DRINKING?

2010-06-11T11:43:00.004-05:00

It is easy to turn a blind eye to the underage drinking happening in Lawrence. Some parents feel it is OK to loosen up on the rules around drinking as their adolescents become seniors in high school and on into college. Researchers conclude that the message parents give their children has a great effect on the children's drinking behavior. Parents who disapprove completely of underage drinking tend to have children who engage in less drinking and less binge drinking in college.
Read more about this research on alcohol and the teen brain.

http://www.kansasfamily.com/ns/newsdetail.cfm?NID=100

TOWN HALL MEETING APRIL 7, 2010

2010-05-24T11:31:00.003-05:00

As many of you know, the Lawrence Town Hall Meeting on Underage Drinking, sponsored by The New Tradition Coalition of Lawrence, was held on April 7.

The presentations from Lawrence Police and Douglas County Sheriff's Departments are on the coalition website- www.newtraditioncoalition.org.

http://newtraditioncoalition.com/locallinks.aspx

AMERICA'S WEB RADIO-LISTEN TO STACY DeWITT

2010-05-24T11:10:00.003-05:00

Looking for an honest perspective on teenage life
and the choices teens make?

Log On.Tune In.
Monday, May 24 at 1 p.m. EST
America's Web Radio
Book Talk with Ginger and Lisa
is featuring
Chandler DeWitt
Teen author of
Inside Out: Real Stories about the Inner Choices That Shape our Lives
and
Stacey DeWitt
National Speaker and founder of Connect with Kids

This is a provocative program that you and
your kids won't want to miss!

Can't listen on Monday?
Come back any time after Tuesday to stream the show to your computer, mobile phone or media player.
Listen while you work, exercise or drive!
After Tuesday, visit
America's Web Radio
Scroll down to Archives
Select 5/24/10 and click LISTEN!

Chandler DeWitt just finished her freshman year of college. She wrote Inside Out: Real Stories about the Inner Choices That Shape our Lives with hopes that its stories and information would help teens be true to themselves and resist the dangerous choices young adults often face.

Stacey DeWitt, Chandler's mother, speaks around the country to parents, teens and educators. She is the founder and CEO of Connect With Kids, which produces television documentaries and educational programs to help parents and educators discuss tough teen issues: bullying, drugs and alcohol, Internet safety, and trends such as sexting, anxiety, addiction.

VOTE & SUPPORT BONNER SPRINGS SADD CHAPTER TODAY!

2010-05-17T20:01:00.003-05:00

Help support the Bonner Springs High School SADD Chapter. They have submitted a video for the Act Out loud Competition. Go to www.actoutloud.org and vote for Bonner Springs SADD once, every day until May 21. $10,000 is on the line!

Act Out Loud is a teen-led movement to take on the No. 1 killer of teens -- car crashes. It's time to raise your voice against distracted driving in your community. Support KS SADD and vote for Bonner Springs! Only four days left to vote, including today. http://www.actoutloud.org/#/home

COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT STARTING AT HOME

2010-05-02T20:50:00.005-05:00

Want to know what you can do to help achieve change in our community? Here are some proven strategies. You can start at home. Work small and begin to network with families you know and community leaders to keep all of our Lawrence youth safe and free of alcohol and drugs.

Seven Strategies to Achieve Community Change

1.Gathering information-educational presentations, workshops or seminars or other presentations of data (like reading this blog!)

2.Enhancing skills-Workshops, seminars or other activities designed to increase the skills of parents and caregivers.

3.Providing support- Creating opportunities to support people in your network and community organizations. Stay tuned in August for another year of the LAWRENCE PARENT GROUP.

4.Enhancing access/reducing barriers- Creating options and opportunities for our youth to make healthy social choices. Group activities with a sense of adventure are sought after by young people.

5.Changing consequences (incentives/disincentives)- Let our youth know the consequences before they make their choices. Reward good behavior. Follow through with consequences.

6.Physical design- Changing the physical design or structure of your environment. Limit access to alcohol (and perscription drugs) in your home and ask other families to do the same.

7.Modifying/changing policies- Know your local laws, school policies and state laws. Talk to community leaders about enforcing and strengthening our laws to help keep kids safe.

THOSE WHO HOST LOSE THE MOST

2010-05-02T20:37:00.005-05:00

Hosting minors while they are using alcohol can cause devistating results. Read about this law suit against those who hosted minors in Kansas City.
http://www.kansascity.com/2010/04/27/1908087/parents-of-pedestrian-killed-in.html?story_link=email_msg

TEXTING AND DRIVING

2010-04-22T20:53:00.004-05:00

It's time to talk to the youth of your community about texting and driving. We are 8 times more likely to get in an accident while texting. Just another discussion that will keep Lawrence kids safe! Share these links with the ones you love:

http://www.bookwalterdesign.com/TextandDrive/
http://www.webmd.com/parenting/news/20090505/teens-all-thumbs-when-texting-and-driving

COMMUNITY DISCUSSION FORUM WEDNESDAY

2010-04-03T09:12:00.004-05:00

Mark you calendar for this Wednesday April 7, 2010 for the Third Annual Town Hall Discussion on underage drinking in Lawrence. John Drees has a powerful presentation on a night in the ER. It's real! The Lawrence Police Department will also have a presentation about we they and we all can and are doing to keep our teens safe. Click on the link below for more information.
http://newtraditioncoalition.com/default.aspx

SEXUAL ABUSE AWARENESS MONTH (Long blog but worth the read)

2010-04-02T12:59:00.002-05:00

April is sexual abuse awareness month. Here are some good resources to share with teens about relationships. Click on the link below for a teen quiz and more information.
Teen Sexual Assault and Abuse-- Let your kids know what it is so they can recognize it if ever happens to them.
Sexual violence is any act (verbal and/or physical) which breaks a person’s trust and/or safety and is sexual in nature.
Victims/survivors of sexual assaults are forced, coerced, and/or manipulated to participate in the unwanted sexual activity.
Adolescent women are at a higher risk for sexual violence than any other age group.
Part of the reason for this is the large number of date/acquaintance rapes, which occur at this age.
This is coupled with the fact that many adolescents are victims of sexual abuse and incest as well.
Due to past or ongoing sexual abuse, teens with these experiences are more likely than their non-abused peers to participate in “delinquent” teenage behaviors including those which result in social problems, conflict with authority, early sexual behavior, and eating problems.
These behaviors may help the teen escape from jeopardy and/or to serve as a cry for help.
Date/acquaintance rape is sexual assault perpetrated by someone known to the victim such as: a friend, an employer, a date, or someone the victim/survivor recently met.
It is almost entirely perpetrated by males against females.
It is NEVER the victim/survivor’s fault no matter what she wore, where she was, whether or
not she fought back, or whether or not she was drinking.
The perpetrators are 100% responsible for their actions.
Rape, including date/acquaintance rape, is violence where sex is used as a weapon. Date/acquaintance rapists often believe myths such as: women owe men sex if they spend money on her; some women play hard to get and say “no” when they mean “yes;” and women enjoy being pursued by an aggressive male.
Individuals who have been assaulted and/or abused by someone they know may feel guilty or responsible for the abuse, feel betrayed, question their judgement, or have difficulty trusting people.
Recovery from an assault can be assisted by contacting an advocate who understands the needs of sexual assault victims.
Many communities have rape crisis centers with 24-hour counseling and advocacy services. Adolescents who are being sexually abused can contact the 24-hour National Child Abuse Hotline for assistance and referral: 1-800-422-4453.
http://www.loveisrespect.org/
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2010/apr/03/april-sexual-abuse-awareness-month/
http://www.gadugisafecenter.org/

RITALIN ADDERALL AND DEXEDRINE ABUSE

2010-03-22T11:32:00.006-05:00

Some kids think that taking adderall helps them study and do well on tests. Researchers of 6,000 students showed 1 in 7 taking the drug off prescription.
Widely abused as a recreational drug. They're known on the street as Fatty Addy, A.D., Study Buddies, Ralls, Headlight Through Fog, Smart Pills, Beenies, Amps, A-Bombs, Addies, Poopy, Blue Buddies, Blue Betties, Orange Tic-Tacs (name used for the higher-dosage orange versions), Blue Dutchman, Candy, A Candy, Blue Boy, Jollies, Smurfs, Rinky Dink, Diet Coke, Davies (for their founder, Dave Herrington), Team Blue, Derallo, The A Train, A+ (in reference to its stimulant effect -- Ambien is often referred to as "A-", the reverse effect of Adderall). In some regions of the U.S. they are known as Railguns and "That'da Boy(s)" (from noted increase in productivity).

In some schools, junior high, high school and colleges, taking Adderall is known as Taking the A-Train, most likely inspired by the song "Take The A Train" by Duke Ellington. The 5 and 10 mg doses are also known in the northwest as "BBs", which is short for "Blueberries", named for their blue color. Heavier users tend to use the term "GBs", short for "goof balls". Some Adderall abusers crush and snort the 5 and 10 mg. pills, to experience a stronger "rush" and a more rapid onset of the drug's effects. This has led to the term "Smurf Snot," used to describe how the pills color one's mucus blue.

Ritalin, Dexedrine and adderall are all stimulants. Technical difference: Dexedrine and Adderall both contain amphetamine type stimulants where Ritalin contains a stimulant that is not an amphetamine. Dexedrine is made up of 1 amphetamine salt which is dextroamphetamine. Adderall is made up of 4 amphetamine salts, 1 of which is dextroamphetamine which makes up 25% of the Adderall pill. Ritalin usually requires a dosage similar to Adderall and twice that of Dexedrine to be effective.
Read the article below for more information to share with your children.

http://www.connectwithkids.com/tipsheet/printer/100317_ritalin.shtml

AOPOLO OHNO "NO" TO UNDERAGE DRINKING

2010-03-03T18:44:00.003-06:00

Apolo Anton Ohno Partners with The Century Council to Promote Ask, Listen, Learn Nationwide

Most Decorated U.S. Winter Olympian to Launch Apolo Anton Ohno Foundation; First initiative is a five-city tour to encourage kids to "say 'YES' to a healthy lifestyle and 'NO' to underage drinking.

See the full story at...
https://app.e2ma.net/app/view:CampaignPublic/id:9612.6612189104/rid:bd928ca492d3e8c43ab0f81f7ebb5fd4

KANSAS RATES HIGHER THAN NATIONAL AVERAGE

2010-02-26T18:01:00.003-06:00

Underage drinking is a significant issue that affects every Kansas community and it is a huge drain on our state budget. The Kansas Leadership to Keep Children Alcohol Free Committee has put together some research information to educate communities and state leaders about how underage drinking affects Kansans.

The white paper outlines the effects of underage drinking; youth alcohol use rates in Kansas; the economic impact of underage drinking; current Kansas policies to reduce youth access; and suggested policy changes and effective strategies to address this issue.

The Kansas Leadership to Keep Children Alcohol Free Committee encourages you to distribute this document widely throughout your networks via e-mail, newsletters, listserv, social networking pages (facebook, Twitter, etc.,) and Web sites. For questions or additional information about the document, contact Keri Renner at: krenner@kansasfamily.com or Michelle Voth at: mhvoth@kansasfamily.com or call Kansas Family Partnership at 1-800-206-7231.

http://www.kansasfamily.com/documents/KSSOSUAD2010.pdf

LAWRENCE PARENT GROUP MEETING THURSDAY FEB 25th

2010-02-25T10:33:00.001-06:00

At our last parent meeting on Wednesday, January 27, Carol Wilson led a very informative and heartfelt discussion about the "choking game". For those that were unable to attend, it is a very dangerous (sometimes fatal) "game" many kids are choosing to participate in, and you need to be aware of it. Visit Carol's website for more information.
http://www.kimberwilson.com/

In an effort to facilitate communication within our Lawrence Parent Group, Dave Schieffer has established a Yahoo Group. You do not need a Yahoo email account; any email account will work. If you are on the Lawrence Parent Group distribution list, I will add you to the group, and you should receive and email. Meeting details and reminders will be on this site going forward. I welcome all feedback about the group and the site!

NEXT LAWRENCE PARENT MEETING -- FREE STATE HIGH SCHOOL 6PM THURSDAY FEB. 25TH
Officer Jay Bialek, School Resource Officer at Southwest Junior High, will join us to highlight some of the latest and greatest information, tools, and techniques to help you navigate through the internet world our kids know so well. We will have a lot of material to cover, so the meeting will be extended to 1.5 hours. Dave have seen Jay's material, and he gets straight to the heart of the matter. Please try to be at this meeting! RSVP to Dave Schieffer at schiefferus@yahoo.com

HOME ALONE

2010-02-25T10:25:00.004-06:00

Staying Home Alone While Parents Are Away
There are two sides to this issue. Some parents have no problem trusting their teens to stay home when they are away for the weekend, some would never dream of doing that. It just goes to show that teens, parents and families can be as different as their fingerprints. Here is a parenting contract for your personal use that you can print out. Please feel free to use as it or make it your own. At least, it is a good discussion starter. It is always a good idea to tell your neighbors you're leaving and ask someone to watch the house while you are gone.

Parents and Teens Contract: Staying Home Alone While Parents Are Away
I know that being able to stay home alone while my parents are away is a privilege. I respect that my parents love me and want to keep me safe. My parents respect that I am getting older and want the privilege of being able to take care of myself. With that in mind, we agree:

1.I will strictly follow the rules set by my parents for the time that I am home alone.

2.I understand the routine my parents and I have developed and will follow through with it.

3.I understand what to do in case of an emergency.

4.I understand what to do if someone comes to our door.

5.I understand what to do if the phone rings.

6.I know who to call if I need help for minor things and for major things.

7.I know how to contact my parents if I need to.

8.I will not have a party while my parents are away.

9.I will not use illegal substances while my parents are away.

10.I will be where my parents expect me to be, with whom I am expected to be with, the entire time my parents are away.

The consequences for not following through with these expectations and limits are:

FAKE ID 101 CAMPAIGN

2010-02-25T10:00:00.001-06:00

Lawrence law enforcement conducts first of four fake ID stings in Lawrence.

Lawrence police performed the first of four planned fake ID stings at local businesses Monday. The stings are part of a two-month effort to reduce underage drinking.

Look for the Fake ID poster in your neighborhood businesses and high schools.
http://blogs.pitch.com/plog/2010/02/ku_mclovins_beware_fake_id_crackdown_underway_in_lawrence.php

SUPPORT PROJECT GRADUATION

2010-01-30T11:21:00.004-06:00

Last year, nearly 1/3 of youth under 21 killed in traffic crashes died in alcohol related crashes during April, May and June -- Prom and Graduation

Open the link below for Project Graduation contact information. Support this drug/alcohol free party for all Lawrence graduating seniors.

http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2009/apr/04/graduation-party-give-safe-option-seniors/

NEW TRADITION COALITION TO APPLY FOR GRANT

2010-01-26T11:54:00.004-06:00

In order to serve our community better, the New Tradition Coalition is applying for a Federal Grant aimed at helping community coalitions just like ours. We'll keep you posted!
See the full press release at:
http://www.samhsa.gov/newsroom/advisories/1001215249.aspx

Press Release:
Date: 1/21/2010
Media Contact: Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration Press Office

ONDCP and SAMHSA Accepting Applications for $18.75 Million to Harness the Power of Drug Free Community Coalitions
WASHINGTON, DC—The White House Office of National Drug Control Policy (ONDCP), in partnership with the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), has announced the availability of new Drug Free Communities (DFC) Support Program funding. ONDCP expects to award approximately $18.75 million for 150 new competing grants to support the efforts of community coalitions working to prevent and reduce substance use among youth.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

2010-01-21T17:49:00.003-06:00

Project Graduation committee is grappling with the idea of using breathalyzers.
Ask your kids what they think? Check out the Lawrence Channel 6 news story below and add your comments to this post.
http://www2.ljworld.com/news/2010/jan/16/party-planners-face-sobering-decision-whether-test/

DO WE NEED TO TALK TO OUR KIDS ABOUT IT?

2010-01-21T17:37:00.004-06:00

Check out these numbers about how much time our kids spend plugged in. According to a Kaiser Family Foundation survey released this week, kids spend more than 7 hours a day on their phones, video games, iPods and computers.

What about school work? Family time? Face-to-face conversation? Says Vicky Rideout, director of Kaiser's Program for the Study of Media and Health, "Anything that takes up this much time, we really do need to think about it and talk about it."

http://www.usatoday.com/tech/news/2010-01-20-1Avideokids20_ST_N.htm

LAWRENCE SCHOOL DISTRICT ALCOHOL, TOBACCO AND DRUG POLICY

2010-01-06T11:36:00.005-06:00

Ever wonder what the drug and alcohol policies are at our Lawrence schools? Follow this link to see and share with your student.

http://www.dccca.org/prevention_docs /Lawrence%20Schools%20Drug%20and%20Alcohol%20policy.pdf

LAWRENCE PARENT GROUP MEETINGS

2010-01-05T10:45:00.003-06:00

These parent meetings are helpful in two very important ways. They offer powerful information about what is happening in our child's world that we may not be aware of-(being the parent). And, they serve as a way to bring parents out of the isolation of our own families so we can connect and share ideas that will help us all raise healthy adults. Please plan to attend.

Who: ALL PARENTS AND CARE GIVERS ARE WELCOME
Where: Free State High School Library Classroom
When: Wednesday, January 27 - 6-7 PM
What: The Choking Game
RSVP: schiefferus@yahoo.com

Among children and teens, it's a game that consists of getting "high" by causing themselves to pass out. It goes by several different names: "choking game", "pass out game", "fainting game", "dream game", "space monkey", "American dreaming game", "tingle game" or simply "black out." Whatever name it goes by in your neighborhood, the game kills. Protect your loved ones by finding out everything you can about this deadly game. Lawrence parent Carol Wilson will join us for this extremely important discussion. In the meantime, feel free to visit www.8thdayfoundation.org for more information.

NEXT MEETING Thursday, February 25 - 6-7PM Free State High School Library

I have received many requests to discuss kids' use of technology. Facebook, MySpace,Twitter, texting, sexting, etc etc etc -- there's a lot out there for parents to stay on top of, and it can be intimidating and overwhelming. I am partnering with a Lawrence police officer to present to you the latest and greatest information, tools, and techniques to help you navigate. It may be more than we can tackle in one meeting!

THE COOL SPOT

2010-01-05T10:29:00.005-06:00

Here is a fun, interactive web site put together by the National Institute of Health that your adolescent can visit again and again. It is a young teen's place for information on alcohol and resisting peer pressure. It is full of facts and more importantly, real life teens and their stories. Teens listen to teens. Pass it on to yours!

http://www.thecoolspot.gov/

ALCOHOL AND THE BRAIN

2009-12-07T16:13:00.005-06:00

Here is an interesting article from the "University Daily Kansan", Dec.7, 2009 about the culture of binge drinking on the KU Campus and our Lawrence community. It states that many of the incoming freshmen come to school with a binge drinking mentality. Visit the link below for the entire article. You will also find out more about the adolescent brain and binge drinking on this blog site.

http://www.kansan.com/news/2009/dec/07/alcohol-brain-look-long-term/

LAWRENCE PARENT GROUP MEETINGS

2009-12-05T18:50:00.002-06:00

As a parent of a teenager, I'm often reminded how little I know these days. However, one thing I know well is that the busier my kids are, the less opportunity they have to get into trouble!

Join us Wednesday, December 16 from 6-7 PM, in the Free State High School library classroom for the next Lawrence Parents Group.

This month's Parents Group topic will focus on activities our kids have found and are involved with in Lawrence. I pLan to compile a list and post it on the New Tradition Coalition website and blog. I hope you will join us - it should be a fun discussion!

Please RSVP so I know how many parents to expect. Also, please continue to spread the word about our group. All parents are welcome!

For planning purposes, I would also ask that you put the following upcoming Parents Group meetings on your calendar:

Wednesday, January 27 - Among children and teens, it's a game that consists of getting "high" by causing themselves to pass out. It goes by several different names: "choking game", "pass out game", "fainting game", "dream game", "space monkey", "American dreaming game", "tingle game" or simply "black out." Whatever name it goes by in your neighborhood, the game kills. Protect your loved ones by finding out everything you can about this deadly game. Lawrence parent Carol Wilson will join us for this extremely important discussion. In the meantime, feel free to visit www.8thdayfoundation.org for more information.

Thursday, February 25 - I have received many requests to discuss kids' use of technology. Facebook, MySpace,Twitter, texting, sexting, etc etc etc -- there's a lot out there for parents to stay on top of, and it can be intimidating and overwhelming. I am partnering with a Lawrence police officer to present to you the latest and greatest information, tools, and techniques to help you navigate. It may be more than we can tackle in one meeting!

Wednesday, March 17 - Topic to be determined

Thursday, April 22 - Topic to be determined

If you have any questions please send me an email!

Thanks!
Dave

David Schieffer
SCHIEFFERUS@YAHOO.COM

SOCIAL HOSTING LAWS IN LAWRENCE

2009-11-30T11:05:00.004-06:00

The recent KU parent newsletter included a small article about our city's social hosting ordinance. Click the link below to read it. Please share this with your child whether they are under 21 or over 21, it is against the law to host underage drinking.

http://www.vpss.ku.edu/Parent_enews/1109/#Party

KU SURVEY CONFIRMS DRINKING PROBLEMS

2009-11-21T08:25:00.003-06:00

Here are 3 articles from the "University Daily Kansan" chronicling the information KU is gathering to delve into the world of student alcohol abuse in our community.

www.kansan.com/search/?q=alcoholedu

BOOK REVIEWS

2009-11-16T09:45:00.004-06:00

We have added some more books to our Helpful Reading Material Section on the right. Here is a synopsis of each new selection:

The Primal Teen, What discoveries about the teenage brain tell us about our kids. Strauch is the medical science and health editor at the "New York Times".

Why Do They Act That Way, A survival guide to the adolescent brain for you and your teen. Factual, funny, readable and helpful.

The Second Family, deals with peer power, pop culture, the wall of silence and other challenges of raising today's teens.

Smashed, is a story of a drunken girlhood.

Happy Reading!

HELPFUL WEB SITES

2009-11-16T08:14:00.004-06:00

Here are some great web sites to pass on to your teen. They are for teens with great information about alcohol, drug use, eating disorders, dating, bullying and depression. It will help you and your child understand themselves or their friends through the candid testimonials from the courageous teens who tell their video stories. They offer solutions to those teens and families who don't know how to turn the tide in their home. Check them out and pass them on to those you know who may benefit.

http://www.clearchoices.org/

http://www.notmykid.org/

TEENAGERS ARE CHANGING THE WORLD

2009-11-11T11:24:00.002-06:00

Guest author Susan M. Heim, formally Senior Editor for the bestselling Chicken Soup for the Soul series and author, has written about a wonderful experience her son had with volunteering, and what you and your teen can learn from it. So many teenagers are looking for adventure and risk taking activities. Here is a way to get both and the "ultimate high" of knowing you helped someone who needs it. Please share this article when discusses plans for school breaks.

www.authorsden.com/visit/viewarticle.asp?AuthorID=54542

2009-11-05T13:34:00.002-06:00

The Holiday Mail for Heroes program is underway. Encourage your community of kids and teens to participate in service work and make some holiday cards for our soldiers. Visit http://www.redcross.org/ for more details.

PARENT TO PARENT

2009-10-25T13:49:00.003-05:00

One of the best ways to let your teen care is to connect with the parents and families of their friends. Connecting with other parents is a great way to create some accountability as our teens get older and have more independence. With our busy schedules, this may be easier said than done. Here are a few things we can do with little effort. You undoubtedly have more ideas. Please leave your comments below. Remember, it really does take a village.

Sit with other parents when attending sporting events.

When dropping off or picking up your child at a friend's house, go up to the door to meet the parents.

Ask your child to introduce you to parents when you are at school events or other functions.

Ask your child to introduce themselves, say hello and good bye every time they go to someone else's home. Parents need to know who is in their home.

Call parents who have hosted your child and say thanks.

Invite your child's friends parents and family over for a visit.

Go to parent meetings hosted at Free State High School every month. Invite other parents as well. (See schedule on this blog.)

Make sure your child knows you want their friends to say hello and good bye when they come over. Ask your child to let his/her friends know that you expect them to touch base when they come over.

Exchange cell numbers, work numbers and email addresses of parents whose children are close to yours.

Sign the Parent Pledge and join the Parent Directory on this blog site.

TAKE THE QUIZ- ARE THEY DATING OR JUST FRIENDS?

2009-10-24T10:51:00.002-05:00

Here is a quiz about teen dating. Ask your child what 'dating' means to them. You may be surprised to see how different their definition is from yours!

http://parentingteens.about.com/library/sp/quiz/dating/blteen_dating_quiz.htm

KU STUDENT INPUT REQUESTED

2009-10-24T10:26:00.004-05:00

On October 22, 2009, the following lettter was sent to all KU students asking about alcohol-related policies at KU. We applaud Emily C. Williams, Chairwoman, Graduate Student for The Committee to Combat Alcohol Abuse and Investigate Related Policy for making this discussion happen.

Fellow Jayhawks,

This semester a committee was formed by the Student Senate Student Rights Committee to look at alcohol abuse at KU and policies regarding alcohol that affect students. We are the only body looking at this issue that was formed by students and is made up entirely of students.

The committee created a short survey that will help us recommend whether any changes to existing alcohol-related policies should be made to ensure that the University of Kansas remains a safe place for all students. Please spend 10 minutes taking the following survey and giving us your input. Your participation is invaluable. This is the time to make your voice heard! If you have a suggestion, we want to hear it.

The information given in the survey is confidential and will be used only to gauge student awareness and to collect student opinions regarding current alcohol-related policies. No personal information will be released and no personally identifiable information is being collected.

Survey: http://studentvoice.com/ukan/rightssubctesurvey09.

If you have any questions or would like more information on the committee, please send an email to rightssubcomm@ku.edu or call the Student Senate office at 785-864-3710. If you have any difficulties with the survey link, call the Office of the Vice Provost for Student Success at 864-4060 for technical assistance.

Also, any student is welcome to join our conversation. The final meetings of the committee will be:

Thursday, Oct. 22 at 8:15pm in Alderson (Union) Thursday, Oct. 28 at 7:00pm in the International Room (Union) Thursday, Nov. 5 at 7:00pm in the Jayhawk Room (Union) Thursday, Nov. 12 at 8:00pm the Big 12 Room (Union)

Please join us!

Rock Chalk,
Emily Williams

Emily C. Williams
Chairwoman, Graduate Student
The Committee to Combat Alcohol Abuse and Investigate Related Policy rightssubcomm@ku.edu 785-864-3710

PARENT GROUP THURSDAY OCTOBER 22ND

2009-10-20T13:07:00.003-05:00

Just a reminder for all Lawrence Parents. Here is a chance to meet other parents and get to know your child's friend's parents better. Join in our lively discussion this month about "TEENS and SEX".
You may find them shocking, but these are the facts about teenage sexual activity:

Ten percent of all 13-year-olds have had sexual intercourse.
50 percent of all teenagers have had sex by the time they enter the 10th grade.
One in every five teenage girls will become pregnant during high school.
Half of all teenagers don't believe oral sex is sex.
By the time they finish high school, two-thirds of all young adults will have become sexually active.

Join us Thursday, October 22 from 6-7 PM, in the Free State High School library classroom for the next Free State Parents Group. We will tackle the difficult topic of teen sex. Get the information and support you need, and use this information to become a force in your child's life and encourage him/her to make good choices!

Please RSVP so I know how many parents to expect.
schiefferus@yahoo.com
See you Thursday!
The New Tradition Coalition and our dedicated friend Dave Schieffer

2009-10-20T13:04:00.001-05:00

Please join us! The New Tradition Coalition, in conjunction with the Kansas Elks State Drug Awareness Program, will be tailgating at the Free State vs. Lawrence High football game this Friday, October 23rd. Like the New Tradition Coalition, the Elks are dedicated to preventing the use of alcohol, tobacco and other illicit drugs by the youth in our community.
Look for our trailer at the Free State Football Stadium. We will be located in the designated tailgating area, just to the West of the school (the former band practice field) between Overland Drive and the baseball stadium. We will be encouraging people to join the many Lawrence families who have signed the SAFE HOME Pledge, like you did! Plus we will have lots of free materials, door-prizes and the fatal vision goggles for people to experience.

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